i AM VERY SHY WHAT IS A GOOD PICK UP LINE TO INTRODUCE MYSELF TO A GIRL WHO IS TOTALLY OUT OF MY LEAGUE???

Question

i THINK i AM VERY INTERESTING BUT HAVE A HARD TIME TALKING TO GIRLS BECAUSE i GET SO NERVOUS IS THERE ANY HELP FOR ME OR AM i DOOMED TO BE LONLEY???

thanx for all the great answers I will surely look at all this different

Answer 1

Well to start of get rid of that perception that shes out of your league. If you think like that it will project when you talk to her, and your lack of confednce will make her lose intrest very quickly. Secondly, pick-up lines will never work because they are dorky, despret, and even may seem disrespectful to the woman that you used it on. Do yourself, and your future girlfriend, a favor, and forget the phrase "pick-up line."

Anyways, if you lack confedence you must remember to find it. The best way to find confedence is to find the best things about yourself, and project that to who you are. Keep your head up while you walk, and make good eye contact with people, especially girls you like. Always talk with projection in your voice, and walk like you know where your going; and what your doing. You might also want to get a new wordrobe if your lacking fashion sense. I'm not talking about changing your style from skater to prep or whatever, but if you wear like dumpy old sweaters and baggy gym pants you defenetly need new clothes. The best clothes to wear would be a cool FORM FITTING t-shirt with a logo on it like old school cartoons you like, cargo pants or form-fitting jeans. An outer unit like a striped Puritan shirt always help dress up your t-shirts.

Now when it comes to this girl after you found yourself some confedence go up to her and introduce yourself, and say that she seems like an intresting person to talk to. When starting a conversation use questions like "who, what, when, where, why, and how" to help conversation, and make good eye contact. Try flirting with her by giving her complaments on her clothes or shoes, and if she takes well make complaments about her facial fetures and so forth.

Now you have to remember to observe her body language when talking to her. If she makes good eye contact, smiles alot, her eyes dialate (get bigger), plays with her hair, touches you often while speaking to you, get pidgen toe'd, revleas her palms. tucks her head into her shoulders, bows her head and looks up at you with her eyes, and matches your tone of voice this means she is intrested in you. This is when you ask her for her number. After that you can move on to dating then going out.

If, however, if she acts like shes waiting for someone to pick her up, gives you closed guesters like folding her arms, gives you a fake smile; if any, and makes for a hard conversation then move on.

Just remember to have confedence, and use no pick-up lines.

Answer 2

I don't think you need a "pick up line", just be yourself. I understand that you are shy and that is okay. Don't worry about being nervous, just don't try to be someone you are not. Don't try to put on an act. A lot of the guys you see that are so "popular", they are trying to be cool or tough. Inside, they might be just as nervous, or have a low self esteem inside. (maybe, maybe not though). Give compliments, without being cheesy or overdoing it. (Great job on your paper today, or good job landing that account!) I don't know your age so I don't know your situation, I'm just throwing out ideas.
Use your manners, yes...girls like guys with manners. Open doors for the ladies. A lot of guys don't. Ladies will notice this. Give up your seat on the bus, etc. Maybe you won't be doing something nice for the girl you want to impress but how do you know that some girl isn't checking you out as you are being nice to others around you? Hey?
You never know when you are being watched.
Being friends with girls is a good way to let them get to know you for who you really are. Then the relationships can go from there. Often times, with a girl, a guy "grows on them". We like the guy the more we are with them. It may not be love at first sight but they begin to grow on us, we like them more and more!
Good luck, sometimes the nicest guys are right under our noses and we miss out because they are so quiet and shy. Like you! Some lady will find you soon enough!

Answer 3

NO NO ABSOLUTELY NO PICK UP LINES!! most s find pick up lines cheesy and a definite turn off!! just start talking to her and don't be nervous!! if you just start a conversation you could even become friends. when guys use pick up lines on me i totally tune them out. you have a much bigger chance if you skip the pick up lines and just try to be her friend. you never know you might have a lot in common after all you never know!!

Answer 4

i used to be the same way. now i have been with a girl or two. NEVER USE LINES! be yourself. if they can't handle it, walk away. by the way, ALOT of girls go for the shy guy. open up to a girl in a crowded room, and she will think, that you think she is special.

Answer 5

Women go crazy over confidence in guys........I'm no looker and end up with the untouchables all the time. Just walk up and say Hi....m name is....... Most women like to talk......just be a really good listener.

Answer 6

Baby, no one is out of your league. It's all about believing in yourself. Confidence is a major turn on for woman. Believe in yourself, and she will to. Good luck.

Answer 7

be funny girls love it when your FUNNY make jokes be dumb just act like a clown but still be nice and dont make jokes about the the girl your crushing on.........then ask them for there number say that yall can hang with friends invite her to a club sum where were theres other people that way its not romantic just friend-ish be her friend and be there for her once she realizes she has fun with you she'll want to be with you...

Answer 8

Buy her some roses, and say "I wanted to show the roses what true beauty looks like"

Answer 9

just talk.....try to become frends, cuz its a reeli hard relationship to have if ya barely know ur own gf,so be frends, it take a little longer but it usualy works...

Answer 10

Hi. I'm a dork but I'm loaded and well hung.....