Apart of a darkend world?

Question

My life has so many negtaives in it. I stay happy as much as I can but when something brings me down.I fall into depression for a few hours. This is a painful thing that I am going through. If I become sad or mad it stays inside my head for a day or two mabye even a week. But some how I always get the gumption to say sorry, even if I didnt do anything. I am always asked to do stuff by my friend like by them something. I do, but I feel as if they are just useing me. I hate the feeling of beging used. How to I say no when my friend ask me to buy them something or do something when I really dont want to. I am sick of beging a push over, and saying sorry for another ones actions. I am sick and tired of beging pushed around and beging so nice! I have a lil bit of an attuide and temper but I get so nice that it bothers me sometimes. I know it is strange but still....And when I am sad I fall into depression but always find a way to crawl out of it. How can I control my emotions?

Answer 1

Have you ever wondered about the reason of our existence? Have you ever wondered why we die, and where we go after death? What will happen to us in the end? Have you ever asked yourself why God made the earth and all that is in it under man’s dominion? Why were the night and the day, and the sun and the moon created? What are we supposed to do during our lifetime? Were we created just to eat, drink, and enjoy ourselves before we die? As one poet put it:
“I do not know whence I have come.
I saw my feet walking on the road.
As they please I go and stop.
What am I doing here?
How did the road find me?
I do not know! I do not know! I do not know! ”

God has emphasized in many verses of the Qur’an that He did not create us without purpose. He said: “What! Do you think that I created you simply in jest? And that you would not be returned to Me?” (23:115) He also said: “What! Does man think that he will be left to roam at his will?” (75:36) In addition, He said: “Do people think that they will be left to say: “We believe,” and they will not be held accountable?” (29:2)
Indeed, God Has created human beings for a purpose and with a purpose: TO WORSHIP HIM ALONE (Monotheism). He said: “I have not created the Jinn and humankind except only to worship Me. I don't require provision or feeding from them. Surely Allah is the All-provider, the Possessor of all strength, the Firm.” (51:56-58) In fact, all prophets told their people to worship God alone (Monotheism) and shun worshipping His creation (Paganism). God said: “I assuredly sent among every people a messenger with the command: Worship Allah and avoid worshipping false gods.” (16:36)
Prophet Abraham, for example, believed in One God, who had no partner. Anyone who holds a different understanding of God than this has contradicted the religion of Abraham and follows falsehood. God says in the Qur’an: “Those who reject the religion of Abraham make fools of themselves.” (2:130)
Prophet Jesus was reported in the Gospels to have said: “It is written: ‘Worship the Lord your God and serve Him only’.” (Luke 4:8)
Prophet Jacob also said (in the Qur'an) to his people: “Indeed, those which you worship besides Allah are only names that you and your forefathers have established, for which Allah has sent down no authority. The command belongs only to Allah. He has commanded that you worship none but Him. That is the right religion, but most people do not understand.” (12:40)
Read more about the TRUE BELIEVE which supported by the Miracle Holy Quran :
http://www.islam-guide.com/islam-guide.pdf

http://www.harunyahya.com

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Real happiness and peace can be ONLY found in submitting to the commands of the Creator and the Sustainer of this world. God has said in the Qur’an: (Truly, in remembering God do hearts find rest.)
(Qur’an, 13:28)

On the other hand, the one who turns away from the Qur’an will have a life of hardship in this world. God has said:
(But whoever turns away from the Qur’an, he will have a hard life, and We will raise him up blind on the Day of Judgment.) (Qur’an, 20:124)
This may explain why some people commit suicide while they enjoy the material comfort money can buy. For example, look at Cat Stevens (now Yusuf Islam), formerly a famous pop singer who used to earn sometimes more than $150,000 a night. After he converted to Islam, he found true happiness and peace, which he had not found in material success.
To read the stories of people who have converted to Islam, please visit

http://www.islam-guide.com/stories

At this web page, you can read the thoughts and feelings of these people, who are from different countries and have different backgrounds and levels of education.
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Answer 2

You're holding in your frustration which is why you can't control your emotions. You have to embrace your emotions. When your feel depressed or angry, you have to acknowledge those feelings rather than submit to them, and letting yourself become overwhelmed. The people that are using you either don't know or don't care about your feelings. You have to weed out those who care and those who don't. Confront each and let them know how you feel when you're feeling used. If they don't care, don't waist your energy on them. Remember, if they don't care about you, why should you care about them. A true friend will listen and be honest about their intentions. Those will be the friend that you can go to when your feeling depressed. Even if it doesn't take you out of your depression, it's a comfort to know that someone care.

Answer 3

you're not apart of a darkened world, you just care to much for the others; it is good to say sorry, but not all the time, only when you did something "bad".u put all at your soul.tell your friends that you don't want to buy them something because you always buy them. they have money too to buy want they want. you can't just do all that they want. you must take attitude. be strong, don't let everybody let you down. have faith and God will help you. God bless you! take care of you; BE STRONG

Answer 4

I suffered the same problem.Just harden your resolve.Say NO if you don't want to do what they ask you to.You may experience some hardships in the beginning but you will become strong enough to stand your ground.
Good luck.

Answer 5

think of something happy. forget about the world,think the best thing that will make you happy

Answer 6

You will certainly find out who your REAL friends are, when you start being true to yourself.