is it weird if u dont have a boyfriend when ur 13?

Answer 1

not at all, i didn't have my first bf until i was 16, and i thought i was completely weird because of that. but, in reality, it made me closer to my friends, and i had a great time. you can have fun with or without a bf, and you definitely don't need one to make you happy. so just go out and have fun with your friends, don't worry about guys yet.

Answer 2

I'm 13 and I've had sum bf's but now i have found a true one that i really care about but u no, sum people are different. 13 is a young age to be dating but ya juss got to try out different people so it is planly goofing around when you are dating at this age. I on the other hand are happily trying new people but take your time. Life is short in many ways but u have plenty of time to wait until u date. Most 13 year olds' parents won't let them date but that's just them. Don't go behind your parents' backs and date just listen to them. Fair and square!!! Otherwise, it is not weird that you don't have a boifriend although i no somebody that is 10 and already has a boifriend. Again, it is planly just goofing around. Take your time on picking the one that u truly LOVE. And trust me, you'll find one when the time comes!!!!!!!!

Answer 3

No. Everyone matures at a different rate. Some people date early and then find they are not dating in their 20's or 30's as much. Others wait until dating becomes a natural occurance and are content to wait.

The female usually matures earlier than the male of our species. Dating, marriage, and sexual activity all take place in a natural way, usually in that order (if you want the best results). Relax and enjoy 13. Don't be in too big of a hurry to grow up.

Answer 4

LOL! not at all! im 19 and still single! enjoy the single life, getting into a relationship is not the best idea at your age since like... 1) you should be hanging out with frenz enjoying these yrs of your life and 2) relationships can change a person
they're okay in the start and everything like... the beginning is the good part but as soon as the arguing kicks in and the drama wooooooo kinda screws a person over so just kick back take it easy and go with the flow

Answer 5

I'm 13 too and I don't have a boyfriend either. A lot of my friends who are 12 have had a boyfriend or have one right now. It makes you feel like maybe you're nto as good as them or something. But maybe thats just it, you're better than them. Its not weird to not have a boyfriend because the majority of my friends in middle school don't. Plus, we still have time for that later.

Answer 6

I think it's normal at 13 not to be dating yet. It ushally starts around the age 15. If your 17 and never had a boyfriend then start wondering. Sit back and enjoy your life before you let the boys in.

Answer 7

there is nothing wierd. plus those things arn't even real....you don't really see anyone who had a boyfriend/girlfriend at 13 that are still together today. i didn't get my first boyfriend until i was 19. i didn't want the stress of it through high school. i had more important things to worry about. and we are really happy.

you should be doing what 13 year olds do. go to the movies with friends not worring about boys

Answer 8

You are just a 13 year old. You don't need a boyfriend now. You will have plenty when you get older. Have fun and enjoy doing things you like and believe me you will be happy you didn't date at a young age. You don't want a broken heart so young! take care!

Answer 9

Nope. U don't need a hand bag! U need to have fun, but not in the get around kind of fun. Just make em want what they can't have and you'll get lots more confidence than those who give them what they want til they don't want it any more! wait til your 17-18 when someone actually special comes along and u'l know when because they'll be your first and last thought of everyday for a very long time. And just because a guys an asshole and you may be wondering why doesn't he love me and that makes u think u want him, don't jump in their because most guys believe, "treat em mean, keep em keen," but i say to that "treat me good, like if u really wanted me, you would". Cheeeeeeeese

Answer 10

no way! its kinda off if you do. i know yiou hate hearing this (i always did) but 13 is SO YOUNG! You're just starting to come into your own, and you're going through, or will be going through a very awkward stage, whether you want to or not. a bf only makes things more compluicated. Also, think to yourself, what am i gfoing to do with a bf? Cause all that leads to is sex, and you do NOT want to be getting into that so young. Don't feel bad. I'm 20, and am just starting to get on the dating scene.

when you do start dating, pick your partners based on their personality, and their behavior towards others, not just whether or not ehir hot, or its the 'thing' to do. don't buy into that bull, be unique, and individual, and when the times right, and the persons right, you'll know it.

Answer 11

i think the only thing that is weird; is following everyone else! i mean... be your own person! do you really need a boyfriend? just because anyone else has one and you don't>?!@#$%%. that doesn't make you weird or anything else. you make it what you want it to be. i personally feel that they would be a distraction from what is really important! school. your studies. your family. your life! your so called friends are okay to spend time with, but don't let them influence Your Life. you only have one. take care of it. think about it alot!!! you have plenty of time to spend playing around with boys and their stupid ways! you are worth alot more than a boyfriend and how many of your friends have one. finish school first; before you start wasting your time on boys!
Saint Gillian.