i have a lot of guy friends...and they all wanna hit
i have only had 1 man and that's my bd(baby daddy) but these guys talk about him (they have more money then he do) but i still keep myself closed and wait till i get home for Mr. Nasty Time. he knows i don't mess around with 'em but i know he really don't want me hanging out with them all the time. so what should i do???
2006-06-15 17:02:45 · 11 answers · asked by Not-Uh-Fighter 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
really angel and others...i wanna know what u REALLLLY think
2006-06-15 17:03:39 · update #1
and don't say i should fizuck with one of y'all
2006-06-15 17:04:33 · update #2
OK, my honest opinion would be, you are not messing around on your man and if he is the one you go home to at night, he should realise that you don't want anyone else. it sounds like you respect your relationship too much to cheat, esp as he is the father of your baby. but also, keep him on his toes, it never hurts for your man to realise that others find you attractive. and you can have healthy non sexual relationships with the opposite sex, don't give up your friends, just make them understand you only want to be their friends.
and thank you for apologising, it's never an easy thing to do.
2006-06-15 23:06:24 · answer #1 · answered by Foxy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm from Australia so I'm not quite sure what u mean by "hit", does that mean wanna have sex or does that mean hit you physically?
If you mean sex, then I would stay away from those guys. As someone else said, of course your bd is gonna get jealous, coz he loves you. If you really love him then my advice is to stay away from the other guys. You can still be friends but hang out with them when your bd is there so he knows nothing is going on.
If my boyfriend was always hanging out with other girls (especially if I knew the other girls wanted to sleep with him) I would be soooo angry and hurt. Even if i knew that he wasnt doing anything with them, i would still HATE the fact that he was always around them. You should be spending more time with your bd rather then these guys if u really love your bd.
If you really care about him, listen to what he is saying. If he is telling you not to hang out with them all the time, then respect that and dont. Or try a compromise like I said before, only hang out with them when ur bd is there too and he can see what is going on.
Its up to you and how close you are to these friends, but that is my advice, I will say though, they arent just your "friends" if they wanna have sex with you. If they were your true friends than they wouldnt be interested in that from u and would want to hang out with you for "you" and not just to try and score.
And its totally not fair to your babies daddy, no wonder he is getting angry. Do u think you would feel the same way as him if it was the other way around? If so then there is your answer.
Hope this helps you
2006-06-16 00:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't **** with dem dats your man!who cares what anyone thinks.I'm still with my babys daddy we been together for 10 years and he's my first too.I lost it to him when I was 16 and got wit him at 13 now I'm 23 and we have a beautiful 4 yr old daughter named Mia Elizabeth King and we're married and his rapping and dancing is rollin in da money honey!!
2006-06-16 01:33:06 · answer #3 · answered by devotion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you value your relationship with bd, maybe you should back off a little from your "friends". Friends dont hit on you all the time if your in a serious relationship, nor should you tolerate them putting down your man if your serious about him.
2006-06-16 00:09:28 · answer #4 · answered by psycmikev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay with your boyfriend. If you really cared about him yOu wouldn't be going out with youR guy friends. It's called being faithful. I had lots of girl friends that I would go out with when I was single but when I truly got my most beautiful girlfriend then I stopped going out with them. I was truly faithful to my girlfriend.
2006-06-16 00:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Jeff - It is what it is ☺ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn english. Your grammar is terribble. You need to not worry about what the other guys are saying. Stop thinking about money and more about what is good for everyone involved.
2006-06-16 00:08:27 · answer #6 · answered by becca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are committed to this guy, so yourself a favor and make some female friends.....Men don't appreciate their ladies hanging around with other men all of the time.......
2006-06-16 00:08:02 · answer #7 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey DUDE!!!
as you say in your log-on...
"TWIN" might not be a Women...even tho your picture might look like one...
so???
What ARE YOU DOING ON THIS QUESTION?/ANSWER Yahoo site anyway?
now i see this question...
i think YOu need to get some other help besides cluttering this page!!!
you a GUY? or a GAL?
so "WHat should I do?"...that is your question...
hmmmph...
LEARN TO TELL THE TRUTH>>>
2006-06-18 06:04:50 · answer #8 · answered by rlharris59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so, whats the question? you anwserd it already...you know what you SHOULD do, you know what bd wants? does it matter to you? or is it that you want to? mess around with them? better stop and realize who cares and who dont. good luck!
2006-06-16 00:28:18 · answer #9 · answered by countryrose24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl listen to your heart!
Stay with you Bay-Bee Dad-die!
those guys want relations not relationships!
YOU got what I am saying?
shaunee
2006-06-16 00:08:06 · answer #10 · answered by shaunee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋