i really like this one guy that i've been going out with and he seems to be distancing himself from me. i mean hes all into that public display of affection cause he says "he likes me". and lately hes been distancing himself and when i asked him why he said he wants to have a meaningful relationship with me and he doesnt want to rush into physical stuff. and then he asked me if i wanted him to get physical! i dont know if he really means it when he says it cause hes been talking about symilar topics lately and i dont know if i really want him to either. what should i do?
2006-06-15 17:01:18 · 3 answers · asked by russian_honey007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u u have know him for a long time then he is probably only distancing himself from u for 2 main reasons 1: he is looking for other avanues to get what he wants but still thinks as u have been with him for a long time that he can get away with it as u will probable forgive him in the end. 2: he really cares for u and does not want to hurt u or put u in an awkward position in anyway to get his desires fullfilled. so i would suggest that u talk things over with him as then i`m sure u`ll be able to judge best which category he falls under he will avoid ur gaze for both reasons but for the first reason he may act all gung-ho about it that there is no such reason and look u straight in the eyes with defiance.
2006-06-15 17:15:37 · answer #1 · answered by silverspike230 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So, because your boyfriend wants to wait a while before having sex, something is wrong in your opinion. Maybe you should just have higher standards for a relationship.
2006-06-16 00:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by psycmikev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure wouldn't get physical with him that's for sure. I'd see if you could have a private heart to heart with him and see if you can draw out his intentions. If he won't answer I'd distance myself from him as well--permanently.
2006-06-16 00:05:14 · answer #3 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋