my bf and i broke up a long time ago. But ever since we borke up he has always wanted to get back together. He has sheated on every single gf for with me. Every time i tell him to stay ouuta my life he comes around, walks me to class hugs me and always tries to make out with me. Every time i try to push him away he gets mad and then hitts his gf ...i dont what to do b/ci dont want him to hurt anyone ..frankly i tihnk he should be put back in the physc ward but w/e. Now he has six gfs and he wants me to be his 7th and i refused. He must have abused one of them b/c now all of them are asking info about him. I dont knoiw what to say b/c i dont want to get involved or hurt...b/c in the end it all blows up in my face.
2006-06-15 17:00:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw this has been going on since november. He has ruined every single rlationship i have had since them.I have told him the meaniest thinggs in the world but he doesn't listen and he doesn't care b/c he "loves" me.im also the reason he was put in the physc ward to begin with...i was the only one who told him "no"
2006-06-15 17:14:02 · update #1
Walk away from the problem and if it still continues tell someone about it he has no right hitting people no matter what you or they do their is something seriously wrong with him if he thinks its OK he will end up hurting someone and you knowing that he does it will make you feel even worse Don't let someone control your life even if he is not around you asking this q is a signs that your afraid of him and that is no healthy in any relationship friends or lovers don't matter if you put up with it now he will continues to do it because he thinks its right and even if he does get help i would be very careful with him because he can go back.
I wish you all the best and remember be careful and love yourself first.
2006-06-15 17:07:34 · answer #1 · answered by kathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HMMMMMMM........6 Girlfriends = 6 girls with LOW self-esteem,.....and did you even think about being 7th ???.....I sincerely hope not. And this guy's abusive........this is a SORRY excuse for a man. I can't even call him one.
What you need to do is kick this guy to the curb and quick!!....then get out there and meet some decent, respectful, and hard-working gentlemen who will treat you like a real lady is supposed to be treated.
But hey , if you continue to hang out with the guy ......you get what you deserve, if you ignore or can't see the RED FLAGS and Warning signs.
God B With U.....
U should pray for this guy......cause he needs serious help.
2006-06-15 17:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by Sincero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops! Assault and battery charges... but then, that might tick him off anf if they let him out you could all be in trouble.... give him a good old fashion kick in the nads.... tell when he doubles over, jam your knee into his face and tell him if he ever comes near any of you girls again, or if he ever hits another girl,. you'll have his butt thrown in prison, where he can feel what its like to be someones biotch. :-)
* not advocating violence. LOL
Do what you think is right, call the cops, tell your dad, do something...
2006-06-15 17:06:18 · answer #3 · answered by Max 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is interesting, i just can't figure out your bf but the way i see it, its his ego that makes him what he seems to be, he just won't quit being neglected by somebody specially by someone he had relationships with, the most appropriate word i can think of your bf is HIS A NUT, wild case, better thinks about this.... He can't keep on hurting other girls and if this stop he may hurt you physically as well..
2006-06-15 17:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by rudolph d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell a councler, I know it may be hard to confess to a councler but you really should. She/He may help you. If you refuse to be his gf, the n he will keep hurting people, if you become his Gf he will hurt you. He is crazy, and abusive. Really, you need to tell a councler, or you will be the cause of the other girl's pain.
2006-06-15 17:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by Invisible Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that the vaginal cancer (You forgot! How COULD you-- I told you that night when we were cuddling after drinking all that wine!) is starting to hurt more now and he shouldn't want to be with you because if you ever do it again he will get cancer too because it's contagious. Besides, he won't get cancer from the other 273 GF's he has...
Just WATCH how fast he runs...
2006-06-15 17:26:36 · answer #6 · answered by fitpro11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart - he can only do this stuff to you if you LET him. Tell him FIRMLY but POLITELY that you do not want him in your life at all - not even as a friend. He doesn't care about you - he's playing you bigtime. If that doesn't work - get a restraining order and definately TELL YOUR PARENTS OR OTHER TRUSTED FAMILY MEMBER AND/OR ADULT!!! He could get violent.
2006-06-15 17:05:13 · answer #7 · answered by New York Nellie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u soooooo do not wanna get involved with that guy again! talk to ur parents about it and ur school councelor. also if u could encourage the other girls to speak up too. if that guy was in a psych ward, he definitely needs more help!
2006-06-15 17:06:51 · answer #8 · answered by Unicorn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing i could tell you is you have to remove yourself from that situation, it don't get any better, don't make yourself available to him at any given time, this man can really do harm to you and the others, he has some issues he need to work on, seems to me he is striving for some attention he has been missing out on through the years of his life
2006-06-15 17:07:59 · answer #9 · answered by Peaches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the cops and ask about getting a restraining order tell the cop you think the dude is violent he is harassing you and that you are afraid of him.I think the dude is dangerous.you should be safe and happy at school.good luck
2006-06-15 17:11:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋