I came to the US to work about a year ago. I have a girlfriend in Thailand whom i've been going steady for 5 years now. My relationship with my girlfriend has been good despite the distance.
Then last month, i met someone here in the U.S., an officemate. She's from Vietnam. She's been my closest friend in the office. I can really relate to her. We're so connected. We have the same character, we like the same food, same hobbies etc... If we don't see each other even for a day, I miss her. She's always on my mind. I think i'm in love with her. She knows i have a girlfriend back home and I'm also hesistant in making a move because it might ruin our friendship, in case she doesn't feel the same.
I'm not sure if i still love my girlfriend while I'm falling more and more for my officemate everyday. I need your opinion on how I'll handle this. I'm really confused on what i should do next.
2006-06-15 16:51:04 · 5 answers · asked by Jack 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DUMP THE CHICK IN tHAILAND!!!
2006-06-15 16:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your officemate.
don't let one relationship fade away becasue of something you don't even know could happen.. but then agian if you're not in love with your girlfriend you aren't being fair to her.
talk to the person you want to be with first, your officemate.
ask her how she feels and if she feels the same way take a step back to think about this.. do you love your girlfriend? do you love your officemate? if you could be with one of them at that very moment, who would you choose? i think that last question alone could tell you what you should do honestly.
good luck to you :\
2006-06-15 16:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by asdjk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your time dont rush on a conclusion
I am a christian and it clearly states in the bible that everyone has someone they like and love but dont leave the one you like for the one you love because the one you like will leave you for the one they love/like but if you connect better with your Officemate than your girlfriend talk to your G/F and ask how do you think our relationship is going ? you must talk to her dont ignore the problem. yes i am young but i know a lot more than older people if you or anyone has Questions e-mail me at: (tensorskate0076@hotmail.com)
2006-06-15 17:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First talk to you friend and tell here that you are falling in love with her and see how she feels. Next time you talk to you girlfriend tell her that you are interested in someone else. Explain to her you rather leave than to cheat. Even if you do not end up with your friend at least you were honest.
2006-06-15 17:01:43 · answer #4 · answered by Disha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think carefully... u'll be hurting your current galfrene.....
2006-06-15 17:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by sadgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋