2006-06-15 16:50:08 · 18 answers · asked by Getroman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know I'm going to sound like a parent, but you need to just move on.. make new memories.... do things for you... it will get better with time even though right now it doesn't feel that way... I've been there.. and it sucks.. but you will get through it.. and you will be stronger because of it.
dont dwell on what was.. focus on what can be.
2006-06-15 16:54:37 · answer #1 · answered by emeraldeyesmiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to tell you this, but you will never completely forget him. I know from personal experience. You will hate him, want to hurt him, get him back, love him and many other things. The only two things that have helped me are time and finding the most wonderful man for me. It has been almost 10 years since I was hurt really bad. I still think about him, wonder about him. It doesn't make any sense, but it happens. They say that time heals all wounds...that's BS! What time does is it lessens the wounds, it makes you more able to face them and deal with them. I wish I could tell you to simply forget him....but it's not that easy, love never is. But you will be able to move on and be happy again, that is a sure bet. Hang in there, brighter days are coming, they really are.
2006-06-16 00:01:41 · answer #2 · answered by Shadowmyst 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there myself. It does take some time. I am glad now though because 2 years after the break I really feel free. You won't really 'forget' but the pain will go away.
Start to remember all the things that you have enjoyed doing in you life... even back before him. Why don't you dedicate some time to those fun interests you have.
Girlfriends are way awesome right now. Hang around with the ones that support you and want to do fun stuff with you.
2006-06-15 23:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by xawboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals everything but there are some part of us which remains broken forever. I know it's how hard it is to forget someone we used to love. It wont go away easily. I'm experiencing it now. I must admit that memories hurt me like hell. I'm trying to move on. At least you're not alone. We're in it together. Im lost but im by your side.
2006-06-16 00:05:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get you a new bf and spent a lot of time doing things together.And as time go by you will forget him.You got to do thing to kep you busy when you feel the urge coming over you to think about him.Goodluck
2006-06-15 23:54:56 · answer #5 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out and do something positive. go somewhere with friends. Volunteer, at a homeless shelter, the library, somewhere. Don't sit around and mope. Read a good book, learn a new hobby. and remember that time heals broken hearts. and one more thing... don't go running into someone else's arms just because the physical thing feels good.
2006-06-15 23:55:09 · answer #6 · answered by blkrose65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
turn towards ur true friends. get ur girlfriends and go do some fun girl stuff. do ur makes up and hair, sing along to "I will survive", bake cupcakes and stuff ur faces, go clubbing, watch all Sex and the City seasons... u know what i am talking about. enjoy being urself and having ur feidns and u'll realize life isn't so bad. it has its painful moments but it also has great moments.
good luck and do not forget, u r a strong, smart, beautiful woman who knows how to enjoy life! :)
2006-06-15 23:57:46 · answer #7 · answered by Unicorn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell. What i did what kept my self busy so I could still enjoy life. Go out with your girls, get a hobby, take a class, do something that you always wanted to do. Go on a vacation.
2006-06-15 23:55:53 · answer #8 · answered by sweetiepye1919 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sabes que mami.. been there and it hurts like a mother f...er and pretty much like everyone else says time is all you needbut do stay away from places you went with him, try to keep busy and think of ways to hate him or at least to stop loving him like all the things he would do to piss u off...that bastard..okay dats all 4 now cuidate mami...
2006-06-15 23:57:37 · answer #9 · answered by Huggie Boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont play around with love and if you really love with someone, love someone very deeply just stay with that person forever, the reason im saying this caz im hurting just like you are and i do regret it...good luck though - feel better
2006-06-15 23:55:31 · answer #10 · answered by Jubei 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋