2006-06-15 16:42:46 · 13 answers · asked by devotion 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well in lust is when you can picture yourseld with someone else
in love.. is when they're gone, you can't stand it. and thinking about them makes you happy and can make your whole day better. when just sitting with the phone up to your ear and knowing they're on the line and no one saying a word is 100 x better than not being on the phone at all.
if you have to question yourself, you're probably not in love.
but love is probably the best feeling in the world.
im pretty sure you would know if you were in love.
if you take a minute to think about the person, and when you think about them you can picture yourself far from now with them, and you smile and widh you were with them at that very moment. i bet you could be in love.
love takes maturity though, so it really just depends.
2006-06-15 16:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by asdjk 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Lust is an instinct, an emotion. It focuses on receiving and satisfying the self. Love is a decision. Love is sees the needs of the other person in spite of their imperfections. Lust without love gets bored quickly and needs a new object. The commitment of love in a relationship will give both partners security in which they will create a fine garden in which passion will thrive. If you are not sure which one you are experiencing, lust or love, just give the relationship a few months of time and the truth will become apparent
2006-06-15 23:52:36 · answer #2 · answered by heavenlysavan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The feeling love gives you is completely different than a feeling of lust. If you're in lust, then really you're just enfactuated with that person. If you're in love, you'll do almost anything just to know that person is happy.
2006-06-15 23:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by so what 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy! If you have a relationship with 90% sex and 10% conversation, then it's lust. When you are in love you just know that your soul has been touched.
2006-06-15 23:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust will fade away. Love is the ache you feel when the person is gone. Lust is something you feel in your pants. Love is something you feel in your heart that your head can't process. Some people say Love is what's left after the lust is gone.
2006-06-15 23:47:26 · answer #5 · answered by clarnely_2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in lust, it wears off rather quickly and you start to find fault with the person......If you are in love, the faults don't really matter (if they aren't major) and you want to be with this person for the rest of your life. It doesn't happen overnight, though......Lust with my hubby led to love and we've been together for 7 years.......Good Luck
2006-06-15 23:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you think of the other person, what do you think about? Sex sex sex? Or do you think of how much you enjoy being with them? Can you see yourself with this person for 50 years? My guess is that if you have to ask, it's just LUST. Good Luck!
2006-06-15 23:50:03 · answer #7 · answered by Ducky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It' a certain feeling you get with love like can't eat, thinking on that person all the time and lustin like have sex and nothing else.
2006-06-15 23:46:57 · answer #8 · answered by cymp30boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In love is connected to responsibility and commitment
In lust is irresponsible, selfish and manipulative
2006-06-15 23:46:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are in love you would die to protect them if you had to. When it is just lust, a cold shower will fix it.
2006-06-15 23:49:15 · answer #10 · answered by nes81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋