I Need Serious help.........?

Question

I am a 24 year old male. My problem is that I am addicted to masturbation. Daily, atleast 4 times i do it. But now I wanna quit masterbation. I wanna quit this addiction. I find it hard to quit, so plzz. you people there help me, suggest me some way to get rid of this bad habit. It is affecting my life, my social life, personal life. thought I am still single and virgin. Pllzzzzz... Help Me.................

Answer 1

Baby... I think you need a girl in your life. or Find some activity that will keep you from thinking or performing masterbastion. Good luck

Answer 2

Lighten up a little. You're attitude towards it is making you more obsessed than addicted. If I told you to not think of ice cream, you're naturally going to automatically think of ice cream. You need to realize that this is only a symptom of another issue (no pun intended).
You may be too self-conscious and self-centered. Go out with your friends and concentrate on them and who they are rather than how they and others are perceiving you. Also, do this when you meet women. Don't concentrate on what they can do for your self-esteem. Seriously and sincerely focus on who they are as a person and possible friend or relationship (they are only human you know), not fearing if they see you as coming across as a jerk or an idiot. Forget yourself and take yourself out of the picture until that person asks you about yourself. This may all seem irrelevant to the question, but I think it could be the problem that is causing the so-called addiction, which I don't think you have.

Answer 3

I had to smile when I read this question. Honey, there is nothing wrong with you. It is human nature for men and women to go through certain hormonal changes and urges as we age and mature... and sexual exploration is one of them. Don't be ashamed or embarrassed by your "addiction" to masturbation, just use this time in your life to perfect your stamina and ability to please a future partner. Society places too much pressure and stigma on a persons sexual needs and desires, you should never feel that you're abnormal for having natural human needs. So masturbate until the cows come home if you want to.. it is no body's business but yours alone. Peace.

Answer 4

Be with friends more and don't be alone. That way you won't think of it so much. Do things, have a hobby.

If you need to do at least 4 times a day, I think you have sex addiction. You need to see a psychiatrist to get counselling and medication to reduce the urge.

Answer 5

You will probably not be able to stop until your married and have sex... (assuming you are waiting for marriage!) It is a sensation that you really enjoy and those habits are hard to break. So you will be able to replace masturbation with your wife... but don't worry. Masturbation is perfectly normal!

Answer 6

Personally, I wouldn't say you were addicted with only 4 times a day.

Answer 7

First stop worrying about masturbation. Focus on having a meaningful relationship. As that relationship grows, you need for masturbation will diminished.

Answer 8

I don't think there's anything wrong with you, especially since you are a virgin, however, if you want to stop, try to occupy yourself with other activities that require you to be out and in public.

Answer 9

Prayer is the best advice with will power. Like any other addiction it takes strength and desire to want to stop.

Answer 10

You need to find another activity to take your mind of masterbaiting...try going for a walk, or exercising or some other activity that you enjoy INSTEAD of masterbating. Whenever you think about masterbaiting you need to find something to do to take your mind off it.