Do you think its practable to wait until marriage? Or even not kiss until your wedding day?
would you ever date some one that wouldnt kiss until the wedding?
2006-06-15 16:26:25 · 25 answers · asked by me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-06-15 16:30:20 · answer #1 · answered by J. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have found that it truely worth the wait to not have intimate carnal relations until you are married. There is a very special reason for this. Only by waiting can you find out what it is without being disappointed.
I do not believe a couple which has been together for a while, in a legal relationship, should not hold hands, kiss, or show modest affection for eachother in public. A good rule of thumb. Don't do anything in public or private that you would not do in front of you parents, grand-parents or a minister.
2006-06-15 23:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by T J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it would have to depend on the person. If I really loved that person and saw a future than yes I could wait for sex until marriage. The whole kissing thing, I'm not sure of.
2006-06-15 23:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it nothing wrong with waiting until marriage. I personally I chose not too. I would not date no one that would not kiss me. I think it all comes now to person beliefs(not what parents want you to do). For all you christians on yahoo answers I know that you are suppose save yourself until marriage but sometimes things happen. I am christian to but I was once an unbeliever also.
2006-06-15 23:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by Disha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its silly to wait untill marriage for sex...you wouldnt buy a car or a pair of shoes without trying it would you? Saving untill marriage is a silly old control thing for males. It was only so they could be sure they were the first. for the blood lines ya know
2006-06-15 23:32:21 · answer #5 · answered by starteless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The kissing thing is ridiculous, but the waiting until marriage for sex isn't really. I didn't wait and I ended up getting myself pregnant in highschool and never went to college.
2006-06-15 23:32:52 · answer #6 · answered by Cher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think saving yourself is definitly practicle.
not kissing is ehh a little far..
im not sure i would date someone that wouldnt kiss until the wedding day.. but if i loved them i would. but kissing shows chemistry between the two people in a relationship.. what if you two kiss and have no chemistry whne ur married?
that would suck.
2006-06-15 23:31:40 · answer #7 · answered by asdjk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand waiting til ur married for sex...but for a kiss??? thats just 2 much.
i think if someone wants to save sex for marrige thats fine. & if u dont then more power 2 u. it doesnt really matter. but personally, for myself, i would NEVER EVER EVER EVER in a millioon years date a guy that wasnt willing to have sex until marrige. i would want to know how he is like in bed b4 i marry him & end up stuck with him.
i know marrige is supposed to be about love...and blah blah...but research shows that a good number of relationships develop problems because of problems in bed. so imagine a marrige???
kissing is very important to me & i could not imagine dating sum1 for years and not kiss.
after all, i wouldnt buy a pair of shoes before trying them on first..if ya know what i mean.
2006-06-15 23:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by Jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel that if you have thought about not kissing; you might just have to wait. your brain, your internal Ness; is telling you something. it's okay to kiss someone before you marry, but it's also your decision! you always have the Ultimate Say... when it comes to anything concerning You! no one Owns You! no one is you. you are you and therefore. you are the only one that can make any decisions concerning you. maybe you should try kissing; just to get the feel for it. maybe you should wait until you get married. it's all up to you. Own what you feel! think about what you feel! Look before you Leap! Saint Gillian.
2006-06-15 23:38:23 · answer #9 · answered by Saint Gillian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think kissing should be fine, but not sex. If he wouldn't kiss until the wedding, chances are he doesn't like kissing.
2006-06-15 23:30:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think "no kissing" is really pushing it, but that's just me, i know people in perfectly happy relationships who don't ever kiss. If you know yourself and can control your hormones then kissing and even more can be fine, as long as you know where you want to stop and are ABLE to stop (big difference sometimes).
2006-06-15 23:29:28 · answer #11 · answered by Surferchic50 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋