cuz i met this guy that lives out of town, well i havent exactaly met him, but he is sweet, and he asked me out. we have been talkin for a while. he finally sent me a pic. and he is kinda ugly. do i say yes? or no?
2006-06-15 16:01:41 · 15 answers · asked by ladypiper04 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats is such a difficult question...i've been asking myself the same thing. i would accept, for the first meet. but if he's so unbearable that you cannot stand it, then i dont think he has much chance of more meetings. because once there is something negative about him, i always tend to find more and then my whole admiration dies. or maybe it's just the picture that's ugly, not him.
2006-06-15 16:07:23 · answer #1 · answered by clim234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all why did this guy asked you out in the first place? did you send him a picture?
Now, answering your question: you are supposed to like somebody because you know this somebody well enough to know how and who they are. If you don't know this person well enough then you can very well be plainly indiffernt.
I say, that you should try to know this person better, so that you can say that he is just "sweet and kinda ugly".
2006-06-15 23:12:40 · answer #2 · answered by All_real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask for some more pics. Tell him to dress up and dress down. Do some silly poses. Do a few without smiles - smiling distorts the face and makes a person look like someone else. Then you decide and follow through with your decision.
2006-06-15 23:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by John C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humm let me give u an advice , first meet him once only if u trust him, then see him properly face to face because u know pics are not always true, someone who is handsome might look ugly in pic and someone who is ugly might look handsome in pic so its nessesary that u meet him face to face as a friend only then if u didnt liked him and he seemed ugly to u then i advice to leave him dear because i know looks doesnt really matter but that can put u down in future , e.g. u wont care about him much... as he will seem a bit down to u coze of his looks,,, second if u meet a boy handsomer u will soon get attracted to him,,, which will creat chaos in ur relationship and might even hurt u somehow....
Dont pressurise u r self to love him as that is the worst thing , happend to one of my friends and ended in a hurtful way... so please just think about what ever u doooo...........
Hope this was helpful to u ..
BEST OF LUCK
2006-06-16 05:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by sherry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some ugly guy is just as nice and treat you better than a good looking guy will.If you shame of him invite him over to your house and see how you like him before you go public.And if you don't want to look at him right now keep the light off off. until you think you ready to look at him.
2006-06-15 23:08:02 · answer #5 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what would you have said if you had not seen the picture? You cant judge a book by its cover. And beauty is only skin deep. Let the person inside decide for you. You may think different of his looks after you have seen the inside.Give him a chance.
2006-06-15 23:22:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, let me be honest with you. You are suppose to love a man for what he can DO for you should you marry the damn fool.
Because if he can't do **** for you, why bother? Notice where people who marry for love end up. in a damn ditch and broke like mother ******* if the guy is a loser.
So, to anwer your question, if dude is ugly but can do for you and you want a future with him, stick with him. Love grows. ;)
2006-06-15 23:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by duchessrlz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is better 2 like someone 4 who they r rather than how they look.the best looking people r not always the nicest.u can help fix kinda ugly but u sure the hell cannot fix fine and an asshole.
2006-06-15 23:05:14 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could still like him as a person even though you may not be attracted to him! Just keep a friendship with him. I do believe you have to have physical attraction also!
2006-06-15 23:04:40 · answer #9 · answered by mjcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. even though looks aren't everything they are highly important
2006-06-15 23:07:58 · answer #10 · answered by jenna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋