I only had it in her for a second- we were both virgins and tonight her parents called my parents and said that i have to marry her and im only 15!! im thinking of running away to Mexico tomorow and now im at my friend Robert's typing this on the computer and i dont know what to do
2006-06-15 15:49:57 · 15 answers · asked by kingofnewport 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take her bareback horse riding. if there are no ranches around find a flight of stairs.
2006-06-15 15:54:18 · answer #1 · answered by redeye069 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I think that your decision should be made based on what's best for the baby. The child is innocent. Please don't be selfish at a time like this.
You and your girlfriend definitely made a mistake, but now you are responsible to accept the consequences. Although your actions were inappropriate, you should choose what's best for the child. That is the adult thing to do. Getting married is one option, but right now since you're 15 years old, you probably aren't really ready to provide for a family. Your lack of ability to get a good job would mean that you would be depriving the baby of some things that are necessary for his/her life.
Another possible option is putting the baby up for adoption. This would allow the child to have the care of a mother and father who love him/her AND who are in a financial position to care for the child. This could be better for the child in the long run than whatever you're currently prepared to provide for it.
Please do not encourage your girlfriend to get an abortion. This really isn't good for anyone.
I suggest that you and your parents sit down with your girlfriend and her parents and make a decision together. Please be a man about this and don't run away from your responsibility. If it's not possible for everyone to discuss this in an adult manner you could perhaps get the help of an ecclesiastical leader or a professional counselor.
And, in the future, don't have sex until you're married and ready to accept the consequences for your future family.
2006-06-15 22:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your going to have to give up the child. There is no way you'll find a job to pay to keep the child. Now here is a free way you can give the child to adoption without haveing to pay fee's. if the child is under 72 hours old, take the child to a police station, fire house, ect. Leave the child of the steps of the place with a note with the child's name and date of birth on it. Knock on the door and walk away. it isn't agenst the law, and it will work.
2006-06-16 07:43:12 · answer #3 · answered by vampire_ryooshi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...ok first don't run to mexico. tis even worse than staying where you are. i think her parents are over reacing with the marriage thing. she should probably get an abortion or you're both going to be messed up for the rest of your life. anyway, maybe once the aprents cool down they will start thinking practically. however, you might get treated very badly by both families. also, dont expect to keep the girl. there is no way you will be permitted to see her after that.
2006-06-15 22:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by clim234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down with your parents, you gf, and her parents and have a serious conversation about this. Think rationally and take a look at all your options, be carefull next time you have sex too. Good Luck! <3
2006-06-15 22:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by sadie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd rather run away to Mexico than marry the girl you made love to?
Wow.
Doesn't say much about your taste in women does it?
2006-06-16 09:03:00 · answer #6 · answered by Cain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made a choice to have sex so be a man now and take care of your responsibilities,that means taking care of her and the baby,your baby.Don't be a wuss and run away from what your part of.
2006-06-15 22:57:31 · answer #7 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG ohnestly you need to stay because this kid is gonna be messed up in the head without a father and what if she dies during birth? then you would be in deep do-do I would stay and besides kids are fun also you have both of yours parents their they obviously have kids.
2006-06-15 22:54:05 · answer #8 · answered by Burning out, not fading away 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem full of crap because you can't get married at age 15 anyway.
2006-06-15 22:53:23 · answer #9 · answered by Abs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
save your money this is going to cost you and step up as a man and be there for her and the child , u play u pay
2006-06-15 22:53:45 · answer #10 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should step up and stay with her... it is YOUR baby and YOU need to take responsibility...even if you are only 15... if you were or thought you were old enough to have sex... then you are old enough to deal with the consequences...trust me when i say i know...
2006-06-16 20:45:57 · answer #11 · answered by brat_grl_nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋