Havent seen boyfriend in over a month! Should i sneak out to see him??

Question

Havent seen boyfriend in over month, shoud i sneak out with him..?
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 6 months. I'm 17 and he's 22. Even though we're a couple of years apart we are both on the same level ,and we respect each other. While I havent seen him in over a month because we're like both busy people. He never comes over my house because my dad is pretty strict and he doenst even know that i have a boyfriend. My mom knows that I have a boyfriend but she hasnt seen him and she always ask me questions about him like what grade is he in and how old is he. I lied to her about his age because i figured that she might get mad if she knew that i was going with a 22 yr old man but I'm very mature! Well both of my parents are working tomorrow and I was wondering if I should let my boyfriend come pick me up so we can chill for a little bit. This wasnt his idea its mine.I havent seen him in a 1 1/2 months, and i really miss him.

Answer 1

Nope, if he isn't willing to talk to your parents and work something out, and u aren't willing to be open with everyone. Then no, becuz if u guys break-up then you've lost your parent's trust.

Answer 2

It may not seem like there is a big age difference, but assuming you are in high school it is more important than it would be if you were 27 and he was 32. What interest could a 22 year old man have in a high school student that would also be in her best interest.

Honesty is a fine quality and is a measurement of your character and integrity... any situation where you would have to lie about your actions would be quite serious and considered very carefully.

Good Luck

Answer 3

I don't think you should sneak out to see him. Let me tell you, it's those kinds of arrangements that turn out bad. You don't want your parents to come home for whatever reason and see him dropping you off or picking you up or whatever. Especially if you really like this guy like you say you do, you'll eventually want your parents to meet him and you definitely don;t need the grief of your parents' first impression of him as being " the guy she's been sneaking out with". That'll really tick off your dad because you've been lieing to him and he'll think you're guy's a coward for not coming to meet him face to face like a man..and after that it will make it three times more difficult for your parents to eventually accept your relationship. ( I had a strict dad too growing up) If you really think he's great and wonderful, you're relationship will last, even after not seeing him a month and half...a mature person will think of the consequences before doing something dear... hope this helps

Answer 4

No you should not sneak out and you should be telling your Mom the truth. You are a minor and he is an adult. If something were to happen sexually, he could be charged with statutory rape.

Tell your mom the truth and ask her if he can come over and have Sunday dinner with the family or something. If this won't work, just wait until you're 18.

Answer 5

No, don't do it. At 17 you are too young for a 22 year old. If you are 23 and he is 28 then it is another story.

Answer 6

I bet you miss him!! well That would be sweet and cool to do that, but what if your parents come home early? That is always something to keep an eye out for and think about but I bet he would enjoy it and so would you since you haven't seen eachother in what probably seems like forever, Well, its really up to you, but I say go for it, But I'm not saying to go and just disobey your parents, But i would probably do the same thing for my Boyfriend ;). Well I hope this HElps you out!! take care, god bless. Bye

Sincerely

Catherine

Answer 7

First off, you're a ******* retard for going out with someone who is 5 years old than you. You might think you're mature, but really he's just coming in to rape your a$$. If you think he really likes you for who you are, then you have another thing coming you idiot. He's probably been with 999999 other girls just like you within that 1 month. He probably ****** them all too. I can't believe you even asked this question, that was the most retarded thing ever. Seriously, break up with this sleaze bag before you regret it you dumb whore.

Answer 8

OK well first yes u whould do that and second u are almost off 2 colledge so u can still date him and once u r out of their house then they cant tell u not 2 date him and wel hav sum fun b spontanious! i dont kno how 2 spel that but i dont spel rite n e ways well just do sum thing i mean 1 1/2 months girl!

Answer 9

Sneak out my friend, BY ALL MEANS, you miss him so go and see him. Just make sure you get back to your house on time so you will not be caught.

I could tell you not to see him just to OBEY your parents; but the fact of the matter is you are young and THEY were young once (I'm sure they sneaked out at least once), but they seem to have forgotten! SO see him but do it with wisdom!

Answer 10

i think you should try to explain to you parents that you really want to be with him and you both are mature and responsible. Because what if you and you boyfriend were caught together. Because your not of age and he is you could get him in trouble and lose the trust your parents have in you. So i think the question you have to ask is it worth the trouble and losing trust??????