I am extremely crazy over this girl in my school. And its not just because of her looks she is nice to everyone. And she has a great personality. I never know what to say to her when I see her and I am now just getting used to talking to her when she talks to me without looking nervous. I really want to be come less shy when she is around.
2006-06-15 15:18:54 · 5 answers · asked by Pablo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When the two of you are talking just be sure and keep your body language open and friendly. Look into her eyes when you talk, don't fidget or act nervous, she may interpret this as you wanting to not be there with her. I know this may sound insane... but one of the best conversation starters is talk about something you both hate.. like say a really stupid movie or event that happened... it's easier to connect to common ground when you can voice an immediate opinion... and our dislikes are easier to communicate than our likes... and this will lead to other areas of conversation and before you know it, the two of you are talking and you won't be nervous anymore. Social skills are something that we continually learn as we age... you are not the only guy in the world who feels shy and unsure of himself around a pretty girl...just as many 40 year olds go through the same drama. So, take a deep breath and just be yourself, that's all she expects anyway. Just remember.. it's better to be hated for who you are, than loved for who you are not. Shalom.
2006-06-15 15:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by julianna76301 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You poor guy. See if you can get her alon, and talk about it. However, *prepare beforehand*. Perhaps try talking to yourseklf in the mirror :-) l (-:.
2006-06-15 22:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by ibkidd37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep telling yourself to be calm
2006-06-15 22:21:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. You have all those attributes, too. Just relax, be nice, be yourself.
2006-06-15 22:22:44 · answer #4 · answered by Darby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys are talking.......then it doesn't really seem like your're shy at all.............chill
2006-06-15 22:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by mystic 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋