i really need help
2006-06-15 14:40:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You might feel lots of anxieties and maybe worries because you really don't know what to do, how to do it, or even if you should do it. But what is important is communication and it is that you feel good about yourself and what you are doing. If you want to have sex with him don't think so much in what you should do and how. Just enjoy the moment, and let him lead. If at some point you want to lead go ahead. I really don't think he would mind.
2006-06-15 14:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are under the age of 18 you should wait until you are old enough to understand the implications of what you are doing. The best answer is to wait until you are in a commited relationship. If you are indeed old enough to be making these kinds of choices, my advise would be for you to relax and follow his lead, if it is meant to be everything will happen naturaly, and it will be the best experience of your life.
Take your time, and do not waiste the first time on someone you do not love, or does not love you.
2006-06-15 14:46:35 · answer #2 · answered by Sally A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing to get pregnant. . . you'll succeed. The question is why would you want to? The only thing special you'll ever have to give to a future husband is your virginity. Do you want to have to explain that later? Besides, why should he respect you tomorrow for being easy tonight. Sex will be fun for him. . . he doesn't have to worry about being pregnant or being hurt physically or otherwise. Yeah, go ahead. It won't hurt anyone but you.
2006-06-15 14:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree.... Having sex for the first time shouldnt be planned. Why are you Planning on having sex with him? I hope that he didnt give you an altimatum or somthing. If you are ready and willing to do it thats fine, but dont do it just to please him. If you are going to do it either way, then you should just let things flow naturaly. I would love to give you more information but you will need to be spacific on what you need to know. email me if you want to elaborate good luck
2006-06-15 14:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you do need help. Talk to your mother or father about it. Really dumb idea to plan a date for sex. You bf must be a control freak to get you to agree to it. Makes him feel really powerful.
2006-06-15 14:47:03 · answer #5 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Give him a hand/ b l o w job & swallow
2. Lay on your back on bed with your legs around his neck area
(allows for DEEP PENETRATION) You"ll love it!!
3. Lay on bed face down & let him take you from the rear
(position most likely to give you orgasm)
4. Try anal in same position!
5. REPEAT AS NEEDED!!!
2006-06-15 14:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by applpro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it happen naturally. You will know what to do. If he is more experienced, then he should be patient with you and take his time and not pressure you to go any further than you are comfortable with. If not, get up and go home. Good luck and have fun.
2006-06-15 14:45:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was me, I wouldn't plan a date to have sex, it should just come naturally.
2006-06-15 14:42:30 · answer #8 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come round here and I'll help you get some practice in
2006-06-15 14:42:32 · answer #9 · answered by funeehaha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, take it slow and let the good times roll.
2006-06-15 14:46:08 · answer #10 · answered by vicksta1984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋