what should i do...my b/f wants to try to get pregnent again and im just not ready.... he said it would help but i feel like it would just be replacing the baby we lost... what should i do? what should i tell him?
2006-06-15 14:36:02 · 9 answers · asked by brat_grl_nikki 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Tell him NO-your right to say and your decision when YOU wish to have sex-sounds like he's not being very considerate of your feelings and at such a loss and emotional time for you you need someone who is supportive of you and not just thinking of his physical need- maybe I'd think real hard about this lack of character that hes showing you and do you really need such inconsideration in your life.
2006-06-15 14:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You take as much time as you can. How dare he try to pressure you like that. Its not him who went through the traumatic time of miscarrying. Your body has gone through a lot as well. I miscarried and its not a nice thing. If he doesn't want to understand how you feel, thats just too bad. Dont make him pressure you at all. I think men should have babies and see how they like thier bodies to get, just like ours when we are pregnant. When you go for your checkup, make sure he goes with you and let the doctor explain the ins and outs of whats happening to you. He may change his mind then. You do it when your ready!
2006-06-15 21:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by hugabye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he not listening to your concerns and respecting your feelings? It is your body and you are not emotionally ready yet. He can't be that great a boy friend if he cannot understand these things and quit thinking only of his own needs.
2006-06-15 21:43:42 · answer #3 · answered by Catfishchic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready, don't do it, you are the one who is going to have to be pregnant so it is your choice. Don't let him pressure you, besides it is probably too soon for you to be trying to get pregnant again anyway.
2006-06-15 21:40:31 · answer #4 · answered by DULCE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your body...He has no right to tell you when you are ready to have sex/get pregnant again.
2006-06-15 21:43:30 · answer #5 · answered by njagalamalaya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is too early to star trying again. Give you body and your soul some time to heal first.
2006-06-15 22:03:05 · answer #6 · answered by soon2b mommy of 4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell him your true feelings- trust me, I'm a guy- we understand stuff like that when women are open and honest about it. If he doesn't understand he is being selfish..
2006-06-15 21:40:14 · answer #7 · answered by kingofnewport 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd call him an asshole and tell him he can wait until you're ready.
2006-06-15 21:43:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until you're married to get pregnant.
If he can't respect your feelings, he's not worth your time.
2006-06-15 21:40:07 · answer #9 · answered by getagrip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋