my fiance has to travel to another country for 6 months for a job and i have to stay here and attend my classes at the university. Should i ditch the classes and travel with him (i dont speak the native language in that country). Or should i attend my classes and wait for him to come back?
2006-06-15 14:05:39 · 20 answers · asked by that_is_absurd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to finish your classes, then join him. Your classes won't last the entire six months and you will need those hours. Don't waste the time and money you've invested, but you can take a "breather" from classes next semester and join him - what you'll learn by being in another country can't be purchased at any university.
2006-06-15 14:08:30 · answer #1 · answered by PuterPrsn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
You should stay with your studies. Tell your fiance what you are
feeling. You should stay and make something of yourself.
Going or not is not going to make any difference on your relationship
if you love each other. Be more consern abot yoursef than him.
In the long run you will see what he is made of. We women usually
give them everything and if they are not into us we end alone and
with nothing to hang on to. Remember to pray and I know that love
will pravail.
My best wishes. I'll be praying for the both of you.
May God bless you!
Mimi
2006-06-15 14:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by mimi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say with your classes ,cause I think your classes are more important than anything.And plus if he does love you he'll be back for you in no time.Or on the otha hand you can risk it and follow the man of your dreams (even tho you dont speak the language) but at least you'll be with the one you love.
2006-06-15 14:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay and finish school, try to keep in close touch with your fiance but dont be surprised if he strays. If he truly loves you he will stay faithful, but that could be a challenge. But, no matter what...you need to finish school. Do not get married before you are able to live on your own.
2006-06-15 14:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by preventidentitytheft 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you got to stay and do your classes. It would be fun to run off together for 6 months but wouldn't be the smartest thing to do.
Stay.
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2006-06-15 14:08:50 · answer #5 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go with him. You have the opportunity to live in another culture for 6months - why not take it! You can always take the time off school, then when you come back resume your classes.
2006-06-15 14:08:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay where you are and finish your classes. Don't put an education on hold. You will see him when he gets back. It will be worth the wait!
2006-06-15 14:07:48 · answer #7 · answered by camping_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girl, finish up yuh studies. As an educated woman, you can dictate what is best for you if the need arises. never be an underdog in the relationship...you will live to regret if when things sour.
2006-06-15 14:16:33 · answer #8 · answered by New direction 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to your education and have fun while he's gone. Chances are he will be doing the same thing and I think you know that because you are wondering if you should go or stay in school.
You can't lose with school, so my vote is SCHOOL!
2006-06-15 14:08:08 · answer #9 · answered by jimmyweda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stay and finish your schooling.he will still be your fiance when he gets back,dont let insecurities of him being gone or or fear cause you to lag behind,women should never give up something or theirselves to appease a man,if he loves you he will understand the importance of what your doing,and besides absents makes the heart grow fonder! good luck!!!
2006-06-15 14:21:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋