2006-06-15 13:42:00 · 18 answers · asked by Breaking B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't, I think you deserve to have an intimate relationship with anyone you love. But then you should also be of reasonable age and use condoms/pills. Be able to take responsibilty of your actions incase "unplanned" things happen.
2006-06-15 13:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by R man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sometimes think that. When the sexual revolution started people had sex before marriage but usually got married eventually. In today's society people seem so much more casual about it. Although it may difficult to go without it until you are married it is probably the only way to get married because it seems if you have sex with someone they are in no hurry to get married. But of course in today's world of selfish people they would rather just move on to someone else without making a committment before having sex.
2006-06-15 20:46:16 · answer #2 · answered by reallyfedup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what you want
some people want to have compatability check. they see if they are both aligned in terms of conversations, lifestyle, and the way they do things. Even sex. They check if they are compatible in bed. Their reason behind this is, most probably, the person that he/she will be married to will be the person he/she wil be together with for the rest of his/her life. And sex is an issue where both should he at ease and compatible.
If you are tis kind of person, who want to secure that your future husband/wife is compatible to you. it is ok, to have sex before marriage.
However, some people value chastity and dignity. Where their virginity is the only gift tthey can give to their wives/husbands upon marriage.
If you are this kind ofp erson, sex should come after marriage.
hope my arguments would help you decide.
2006-06-15 20:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by ianvill151869 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waiting until you get married is the best feeling in the world. However, I wouldn't know how that feels because I am already sexually active. I am getting engaged in Feb. of next year and I will be married June of 2008..now I wish that I would have waited!
2006-06-15 20:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I defenetly do and my boyfriend totally accepts it :-)
But now it's easier anyways since he's in NC, and I'm in Florida and starting next Wednesday I'll be back in Germany...
But, yeah, I'm gonna wait til I'm married, it's my wedding present to my husband.
2006-06-15 20:51:23 · answer #5 · answered by nickiloveskeith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait until marrage to have sex. The cheat on your spouse as much as you can get away with.
2006-06-15 20:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by elvee13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't. I was engaged he just dumped me to marry a girl he got pregnant.After that I well haven't stopped It's really fun. It's safer and is special if you do wait. I was 18 when I lost mine.
2006-06-15 20:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you should wait until married to have sex.
2006-06-15 20:45:39 · answer #8 · answered by » mickdotcom « 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good to wait, but I will be losing my virginity to the man I am engaged to.
2006-06-15 20:53:05 · answer #9 · answered by angel_girl2248 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Leave father and mother, cleave to your spouse, and become one flesh (1). In that order.
2006-06-15 20:46:52 · answer #10 · answered by songkaila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋