ok im going out with this boy named junior. We've been going at it for 3 months now, right so now i met this other boy Matthew. But i feel crazy about him too. So i just wanna kno does this mean i have no feelings for junior or am i just going a bit fast????
2006-06-15 13:35:43 · 14 answers · asked by Risa! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
still go out w/ junior, and if things go wrong, turn 2 matt. 1 of the hardest obsacles in life is making choises. make the choice that u feel is right. liten to that gut feeling and i guarantee u, it will b da right choice. hoo du lik more? hoo understands and comforts u the most? these are sum questions u need 2 ask urself if ur not sure which guy u want 2 b with. but still, i say u shood stay with junior and c i f u truely luv him. and like i said...turn 2 mathew if it turns out u lik him more than junior. Oh and remember, u can date more than 1 guy @ a time although its really awkward and i would not do it. but dats jst me. o, and dont cheat wut ever u do, although i know u probably wont cuz u seem lik a sweet gal. make the choice u feel is right, and it will b da right choice. ur taking advide from a 13 year old, if u dont mind. good luck! i hope things work out 4 u!
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2006-06-15 13:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Vogue ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears that you might me going in the fast lane alittle,i mean it sounds by your statement that you are involved with both.In that case i would have to say that you probably do not have the proper feelings for Junior,because if you truly did,there would be no Matthew that your crazy about.I hope you can come to some kind of closure soon on one of them,before you end up with neither of them.Like if they find out about you seeing them both,it probably won't be good,so you need to decide which one meets the desires of your heart,and which one holds a more promising future for you at this time.Good Luck on making a choice,best wishes!
2006-06-15 20:45:35 · answer #2 · answered by twjp1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, it does not mean that you don't have feelings for junior it just means that now that you have met this new guy you want something new or you are in lust. I mean you can date more than one guy. You should keep your options open, they don't ever have to know about each other. That's part of dating now if you want to tell them then go for it or just keep it to yourself. How can you find the right one if you limit yourself.
2006-06-15 20:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by simeonxavia22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, this means that you are to young to be committed to just one person so enjoy being a teen while you are one. Trust me you do not want to grow up to fast. Have as many friends as you want to and get to know that person on a friend level and if you really truly have feelings for that person, anyone else that you meet in your life YOU will only want to know them on a friend level so there will be no way you could let yourself feel crazy about him too. Trust me girl!!
2006-06-15 20:44:48 · answer #4 · answered by molly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you're going too fast, you don't have feelings for junior, and you don't have feelings for Matthew!
You can't like someone and like someone else over that someone.....feelings don't work like that.
Give yourself time sweety and in time, you'll learn what it's like for a woman to be in love...
2006-06-15 20:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by xqueenyx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are going a bit fast you need to focus on one thiing at a time!You can like both of them but you neeed to choose between them cause if you decide to be a "player" and one of them find out about it you liking and so called going crazy about another boy they will force you to choose then you will end up breaking somebodies heart!Stop before it get started!
2006-06-15 20:39:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first chek out junior then if hes not 4 u then go 2 matt, simple your lucky atleast you find a type a guy you like!
2006-06-15 20:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u'r just getting a little bored wt Jr have a little fun with Matt but not 2 much (wink,wink)having guy Friends isn't a crime & thinking u have feelings 4 some 1 else is natural"well @ laest 4 me it is ".
2006-06-15 20:50:55 · answer #8 · answered by Coral L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, u got ur feelings messed up. u like junior and matt right?
then u should try and balance it out who has better qualities and stuff...... then go out on a date with each see how they each treat u and how u feel a bout and alwayz remember....LOOKS ARENT EVERYTHING
2006-06-15 20:41:42 · answer #9 · answered by pinkracoon327 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, go on a date with jr and see if you really like him, then go on a playdate with matthew and try seeing who you like better.
2006-06-15 20:37:41 · answer #10 · answered by Leslie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋