How do I help my aunt with her cousin?

Question

Im staying at my aunts house over the Summer and my 2nd cousin(my aunts cousin) has pretty much moved in.Hes sometimes really fun to hang out with and he takes me and my aunt out to dinner almost every night.But he is such a jerk!Like he took us to almost every thrift store in town and we wanted to go home and cook dinner for the kids he said no but then when we were done he wanted to go out to eat and we said no we needed to cook so then he got mad and then my big cousin calls and says we need food for dinner and we my 2nd coz to take us to Winn Dixie he says no so we end up having to make ham and cheese sandwhiches.And like everytime we are going some where in his car he will honk the horn at like every man we see(hes gay)And like today we were gonna go get breakfast he had his seat all the way back and me,Crystal and her daughter were supposed to sit in the back he wouldnt move his seat up and he said Crystal could hole her baby and when my aunt said no he just drove off!

Answer 1

Tell him his behavior is unacceptable.

Answer 2

Sounds like he has some issues. You can't really help - he is the way he is, but you all can tell him how you feel and how his actions affect you all. He might be nice, but he does have some problems that are affecting the whole family. Try to have your aunt talk to him and if he still keeps at it then you should all talk to him. Let him know you love him and you enjoy spending time with him, but that he acts unreasonably when things don't go his way.

Answer 3

he sounds like a jerk, so why does every1 keep going with him? He sounds lonely and is just biding his time with ya'all until he finds himself a honey.
Tell him to stop using your aunt and if he can't respect her or her home to stop coming over there.

Answer 4

You seem to be in a pickle

Answer 5

tell him how u feel n tell him to act mopre mature