I've been talking to this guy for a while now, a month maybe. He's always been kinda flirty, and I've flirted back. Now we've been hanging out most every day. He'll call me sweetheart, Babe, and such, And when he's tipsy/drunk he'll be romantic in that he'll put his arm around me and kiss my cheek before I drive home. But then He'll go to treating me like one of the guys the next day!
I'm pretty sure he likes me, but How can I be sure? I'd like to see this relationship go further.
2006-06-15 13:03:56 · 13 answers · asked by Kella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have asked him actually, He said "he really likes me, he thinks I'm awesome" But the next day, it was like as if Nothing changed
2006-06-15 13:08:32 · update #1
The whole drunk thing, he's not really overbearing or anything, he's just Shyly sweet when he's tipsy.
2006-06-15 13:10:19 · update #2
The fact that the two of you have been hanging out for a month now, says that you like each other. Have you been making yourself too available? If so, cool it a little and if he comes looking for you maybe your relationship is ready for the next level. You know how you feel, if he seeks you out, he's feeling the same way.
2006-06-15 13:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by Chegles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well like most guys they flirt with any moving thing around!! lol jk but yeah the flirting u shouldnt take seriously....when hes drunk though u should try asking him questions. they say drunkies speak truthfully so try it?? maybe it will work and he might really like u back... and about the treating u like one of the guys thing that may be both a good thing and bad one .... he feels comfortable enough to treat you the same as all his other friends which is good but just make sure to get it clear to him that eventhough your koo with him like that that it doesnt mean u ARE a guy!! if u can once in a while show some femenine in you so that he sees you differently!! good luck!!
2006-06-15 20:11:37 · answer #2 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if he is a little on the shy side or maybe married. If I were you I would just wait till he is tipsy again and start pumping him full of more booze and maybe smoke a joint with him and then when he is really lit up ask him what ever it is you want to know.I am figuring you are old enough to feed him booze and an illegal substance.If not then wait till you are.
2006-06-15 20:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by windyy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the fact that he's showing you that much attention shows that he really does like you. And its great that you get along so well in the first place, just don't expect that to stay the same after you get together, because intimacy always changes the way people deal with eachother. could be good, could be bad. You could lose a friend, or make a lifelong mate. Thats the choice we make in life with good friends of the opposite sex.
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2006-06-15 20:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by gregbehrendtshow06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your just his friend who he gives lovey nicknames 2, and kisses u, and hangs out with u everyday!!!
I think the answer is it's pretty obvious that he likes u!
2006-06-15 20:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him!! i know that sounds like the last thing u wanna do but just try it. say "i really like u and i was wondering if u liked me too" or something like that anyway.
GOOD LUCK!! i hope it works out for u!
2006-06-15 20:07:01 · answer #7 · answered by lucky briton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if my guy did that to me when he is drunk, i would watch out cause he can do something to you that you don't want him to do. Just give it a couple days. be careful.
2006-06-15 20:08:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that he likes you...but it could be that he considers you a good bud. You never can tell in a guy's world.
2006-06-15 20:06:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him on a date. If he says no you will move on and if yes... well, you'll be together if you like him back.
2006-06-15 20:05:53 · answer #10 · answered by Bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋