ohhkay heres the thing..the guy i love jesse and i went out last summer and we truly fell in love he was my everything and i was his..the thing is we broke up after summer ended thinking id never talk to him again i called him one day and we fell back in love, he asked me back out and we went out for a while. my parents read something about him on his myspace that wasnt true and banned me from seeing him.well it turns out we hid our relationship from my parents for a while and we eventually broke up because we never saw eachother because of my parents. It turns out my bestfriend mark,(also his bestfriend) told me 2 weeks ago that the day after we broke upp jesse slept with some girll in marks bed..im lost i wanna ask jesse if its true cause mark lies alot cause he use to like me..nd i dont think jesse would do that to me...what should i do??i love him but i think he has a girlfriend now..if my parents didnt ban us from eachother would we be together now..??please help!
2006-06-15 12:51:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time will answer most questions. Jesse the rebound or as a way to shake off his feelings for you could have slept with another girl on the day the two of you broke up. Is the relationship permanent?
If you know that Mark is a troublemaker, then don't believe him. He semms neither a true Friend to you, nor to Jesse.
Give it time, or move on in life
All the best
st.
2006-06-18 03:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by Starreply 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart this is something that only you can solve... Im not trying to break your heart or anything, but maybe Jesse moved on, maybe Mark lied to you cuz he has feelings for you.. Noone knows, except one person and thats you! Its your heart that will make or break you now, either ask him if he really did do it, or move on.... I know it seems sometimes the one you really love will be the one, until one day something happens...
Besides... who writes something they didnt do on myspace... to impress a girl when you already have one??? think about it... from what you described about Jesse... i believe you can do alot better than him.. If he truly loved you, your parents wouldnt be the casue of the break up...
AS for me im pretty much have a scarred heart and dont want to see others become like me... so do the right thing...!
2006-06-15 13:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, banning someone from seeing someone is only something that parents do when they are afriad their child might be thinking of something that really shouldn't be as important right now. If you are young then don't worry there is plenty of time. I liked this guy SO much when I was 15 and I fell completely in love. He broke my heart because he wouldn't wait for me to get back from vacation. He said it was too long and he wasn't waiting for anyone. It was 2 months... now I almost done with my 3rd year in college and haven't thought about guys for 2 years and when it seems hopeless I hold onto my friends. My first priority is ME!!! I need to finish college and get an amazing job so that I can really take care of myself when I fing Mr. Right because that is the most important thing. You too will have plenty of time for guys LATER, get yourself in order now so life's struggle is not so hard and everything else will fall into place..
DvL
2006-06-15 13:02:49 · answer #3 · answered by DvLn1220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Several observations:
* You seem to fall in and out of "love" with rather alarming regularity. I hazard a guess that you're very young and most likely have no idea what love really is.
* Your parents probably have good reason to be concerned about your relationship with "Jesse," especially in light of what Mark told you.
I suggest you try to forget Jesse and concentrate on doing what's best for Chrissy.
2006-06-15 12:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by fhornsr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking from personal experience the friend is probably telling the truth unless he has something to gain by you and your ex not getting back together. I also had friends of a BF tell me he was cheating but like an idiot I believed he wouldn't do that to me.....only later on did I find out he had been cheating on me. It will take time to get over your ex if you love/loved him but parents sometimes see things that we don't and also if he really cared about you at all he would not have been so quick to go on to another girl.
2006-06-15 12:58:47 · answer #5 · answered by Monique M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's a passive aggressive element right here it quite is somewhat demanding. First, i desire your individuals Dad will commence to get well. 2d, all people that threatens someone with suicide because they don't seem getting their way is a ill human being. He needs to get far off from her as quickly as conceivable. She for sure would not love him if she is threatening such issues as that at the same time as he's in a complicated position in his existence. they are putting forward that love and hate are close to to a similar element, and that i have got here across that that's real. some human beings quite love the dramatics that arguing and making up deliver their courting. although, at the same time as it receives to the point the position your important different is threatening violence to themselves or others, that's time to get out. He could kick the drama queen to the reduce. it really is effective to ascertain that you're trying to get advice for him, be his pal by although occurs and that i'm effective the guy will be merely wonderful.
2016-10-14 05:04:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't have a GOOD relationship with someone your family can't come to love. You truly need all of your special people to come together to find true happiness. Otherwise there will only be heartache. Look to the people that love you for guidance,because they only want you to be happy.
2006-06-15 13:01:40 · answer #7 · answered by Rebecca C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OUCH!
I read your whole problem...it seems too complex, get out of it now and forget the boy, if its like you have to jump through hurdles to be with him, forget him.
Don't ask, you'll never know the truth, he is sure to deny it and Mark is sure to swear its true.
Keep Mark as a friend and forget Jessee
2006-06-15 12:58:17 · answer #8 · answered by Cap'n Donna 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask ur best friend if he is telling the truth. if he says yes talk to ur ex. if it's true u DID break up with him, so it's hardly surprising he has another girl. please dont think i'm a terrible cold hearted pig now because of saying that, i know how u feel and i am VERY VERY sorry for u. really.
love is coming ur way!
2006-06-15 12:58:40 · answer #9 · answered by lucky briton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find out if he's in a relationship and don't let no one control your life not nobody especially your family they are the most controlling
2006-06-15 12:57:09 · answer #10 · answered by eciyah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋