I am finding myself worried that I will cheat....Do you think that means I do not love him. I thought I did....but honestly that is a long time to not have sex.
2006-06-15 12:46:56 · 14 answers · asked by jessica_192021 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you are all pre-judging this girl. I mean she is afraid she will cheat not sure she will. She isnt knocking the door down for him to leave.
I think that you should go with the flow. Engage your mind with different things. Honestly try not to go out to partys that is just asking for it. Chill with your family and it will go by faster than you think. Just do not put yourself in situations that you could fall to it.
2006-06-15 13:04:04 · answer #1 · answered by jessica_121212 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Honestly the sex is the reason you are willing to cheat. 2 months is not a long time. Ask the wives of the soldiers that are in Iraq. You are afraid you will cheat because you are only thinking of yourself, and not what a real relationship is. You and your boyfriend have made the mistake of allowing sex to become a major part of your relationship as opposed to letting it become a part of a marriage. You introduced it to soon and now you let it overwhelm you.
2006-06-15 12:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend hasn't left just yet and you are already worrying about cheating on him,then i would have to say that you are not in love with him at all.He is only going to be away for 2 months and if you both can not refrain,then neither of you are serious about this relationship between yourselves.I know it might be awhile for not being intimate,but a good foundation for a relationship is not just about having sex.If you must have sex and worrying of cheating,i would just end the relationship,i mean whats the sense in keeping it going,if all this doubt is coming in?Good Luck!
2006-06-15 13:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by twjp1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well well... that is tough!
The longest my b/f ever went away was 1 month and man oh man, it was hard! If you think you can't wait for him that long just try and think if it's worth it losing your guy when he finds out (notice here I use the word "when" because he WILL find out about it sooner or later, trust me, garbage smells no matter how good you try to hide it). If you think it's worth the risk then I suggest you do whatever you want while he's gone, b/c that means you're not that into him anyways.
If you certain you don't want to lose him then I suggest you wait. Rent some porns and get a vibrator in the meantime, YOU WILL BE OKAY.
2006-06-15 12:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by Bobbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly alls i visit inform you is that if u love him u will waite 4 him. dont take a smash except u really favor 2. i recommend u can consistently communicate 2 him on the phone or textual content him. u may even maby ask him 2 deliver u a submit card. yeah i comprehend sounds corny yet i imagine its lovable. i comprehend ur gonna bypass over him, yet make the time u have now spechol..... or perhaps as he comes decrease back from his 2 month tripe u will be so satisfied and excited 2 see him. the merely way i'd say take a smash is that if u cant believe him 2 be unswerving even as hes lengthy gone..
2016-11-14 20:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is only a small part of a relationship. You need to have trust and communication, and many other things in a relationship for it to survive. If sex is the only thing keeping your relationship together, then maybe you two aren't meant for eachother. Good Luck!
2006-06-15 12:49:45 · answer #6 · answered by sadie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that means you don't love him. You are just worried which is normal.
try to stay in touch with him by phone or writing. Maybe this could make the relationship stronger
2006-06-15 12:50:06 · answer #7 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious?? You do not have any love or respect for him. If you did two months would be nothing. Move on and let him know, there is no reason to drag another person down.
2006-06-15 12:49:54 · answer #8 · answered by driver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your bf is leaving and sex is the main thing you think you'll miss, then it's not the relationship for you
2006-06-15 12:50:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love him then u won't cheat just talk to him before he goes he might even think that u might cheat bc he knows u so just talk to him && get evrything straight hope things work out
2006-06-15 12:50:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋