2006-06-15 12:12:54 · 17 answers · asked by sscam2001 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
These are things that guys have done that have put me off on first dates before;
*being flash with; money, car, possessions
*telling me I have nice breasts or relaying to me that when they told their friends that they had a date with me the response was "get in there!"
*not caring about my safety - driving me home after drinking, not walking me to a taxi rank or speeding in their car
*throwing rubbish on the floor or out of car window
*smoking
*not saying please and thank you to staff (waitresses, taxi drivers, bar staff etc)
*assuming that because it's been a good date I must be coming home with them
*groping me in public
*taking a detour on the way home to a secluded spot and expecting something to happen
*repeatedly cancelling calls instead of just turning the phone off during the date or excusing themselves to answer it
2006-06-15 13:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going to fast and not respecting your wishes. I had a bad experience where my old bf bought condoms, saying that his dad made him. I talked to him about how I want to stay absent till marriage, but a month later he still had a condom in his wallet :[.
Also some guys start really slowly loosing interest, or at least it seems like it. Even if u kno u still care still make an effort to be just as romantic six months after u started going out. Or else she may feel that the relationship is dying, in which it probably is.
Good luck!
2006-06-15 12:18:15 · answer #2 · answered by genuine♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go too far!! I don't even like to kiss a guy until I've been on several dates with him and gone out with him for a few weeks at least. Not that I wouldn't want to do it sooner... ;) But, there's something with me about feeling secure that the guy really wants to spend time with ME and not just my body. First dates are for getting to know the other person... IMO.
2006-06-15 12:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by tranquilitti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Talk to much about themselves 2. Don't really listend when the girl talks 3. hits on the girl to fast
2006-06-15 12:18:11 · answer #4 · answered by Girly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm,lets see. When they try to hard to be funny, when they are to loud and onnoxious, when they get grabby and act like a pervert, the other thing, make sure your breath is not rank,PLEASE! oh,one other thing, don't talk about your ex girl friend.
2006-06-15 12:21:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GUYS IT'S A BIG TURN OFF WHEN YOU START TO TALK ABOUT SEX IN A NASTY WAY. WOMEN LIKE ALITTLE ROMANCE BEFORE SEX. TRY IT YOU WILL GET A LOT FURTHER TRUST ME. I AM A FREAK AFTER A MOVIE AND DRINKS. I AM NOT A ***** I JUST KNOW WHAT I LIKE.
2006-06-15 12:25:07 · answer #6 · answered by HOT CHICK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it definatley depends on the girl. But i am a girl, and i dont like it when guys are rude, or try to hard. Just be yourself, make her laugh , be charming, and definately pay...good luck
2006-06-15 12:17:28 · answer #7 · answered by wnting2no 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask them for sex,about past relationship problems why they did not work out,as them there size, remember to open the doors and check your teeth after eating. a women does not want to talk to someone who has something in there teeth!!!
2006-06-15 12:18:39 · answer #8 · answered by Amry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poking me in the eye with a straw. True story.
2006-06-15 12:16:53 · answer #9 · answered by Flutter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the fact that you may try to already Explore our body
2006-06-15 12:16:07 · answer #10 · answered by futmexochoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋