She tells me i dont need help! And i tell her well your not alone because she feels so alone because she feels her parents dont care about her and that she hates people because people make fun of other people and i tell her to change her mind but she says you know what no im not going to listen ive been thinking about this forever. And i feel so hopeless i mean nothing i do works! I tried everything!!!! And i tell her your not alone your better than this you were raised better than this! But she says no my parents they just tell me you have to do better than this!! And just threatens her! And her mom used to beat her and her brother! sighned by the girl who is unhappy.
2006-06-15 11:59:30 · 19 answers · asked by Cheezycheecks 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Just let her know your there for her, if shes got nothing else your obviously a good friend and a good start! If your still in school talk to a counselor for her if she won't help herself you can remain anonymous and they will talk to her about her problems and put her in touch with the people she needs to fix her family situation (social services, police, etc.). I've listed a site below as my source with number so suicide hotlines please give these to her.
2006-06-15 12:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by cand1cemar1e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you know that her parents won't help you have to tell your parents what is going on. This is way too much for you to handle on your own. Your parents will know what to do. It sounds like a child abuse report needs to be made since the mother has been abusive and is ignoring the fact that her daughter is suicidal. You will be doing the right thing by telling your parents. That's what your friend needs for you to do!!! And don't wait!! Tell them now!! I pray they'll be able to help her on the road to a better life by calling the right people. God bless you for being such a good friend!
2006-06-15 13:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by celticwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do everything you can. It's best if you get a support group behind everything. Call a psychologist or the cops if you have to. Look at it this way. Would you rather go all out and make her mad because it was embarassing, or feel guilty for the rest of your life because you didn't do anything about it. At least she'll know that you care.
2006-06-15 12:08:09 · answer #3 · answered by DaniLynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Princess, there are resources for you. Open your phone and call information, ask to be connected to a suicide hotline. There, you can speak with someone who is trained to listen to you and hear your concerns. They can also point you towards resources that can help you with specific issues.
Don't fear emotive states, embrace them. Move into them as opportunities to learn more about yourself and your needs - but find or hire a professional guide. Call the hotline and they can connect you.
2006-06-15 12:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by bethany94609 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been where you are at. At times feeling hopeless, like giving up, but I dont know you and I know someone who knows just where your at and wants to help you...God loves you very much and knows your needs right now. You just need to ask him for help, and he'll be right there. He won't come unless you ask him. Killing yourself isn't the answer, and you really don't want to or you wouldn't be asking for help.
2006-06-15 12:09:55 · answer #5 · answered by SR1973 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your friend a big kiss, tell her that you love her, take her out to dinner or have other friends come to see her and take her somewhere. Let her talk all that she wants since she is probably hurting somewhere. Above all, reassure her that she is important to you and that she matters to you. A CORD OF THREE STRANDS IS NOT EASILY BROKEN. Do you understand?
Much love and understanding are the key here. It works everytime.
Dr. Love.
2006-06-15 12:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Contact the local hospital and ask for a mental health person. Or call your preacher and tell him about it.
This person really needs some help before they do something that will hurt them.
2006-06-15 12:04:44 · answer #7 · answered by John P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, teen-angst.. It sounds like you're doing what you should do... just by being there for her.. If her parents are truly abusing her, though, you might want to ask your parents to call child-welfare. Sounds like your friend might need the help.. and time away from her parents..
Regardless, ask your mom or dad, ok?
2006-06-15 12:11:18 · answer #8 · answered by annebananalolitachiquita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray for her try to take he to a church and ask someone like priest or pastor to have a nice talk with her but prayers do answer. just have lots of faith in god. and try just to take her out more often. she needs to get her mind distracted. and also see if she could go to a doctor. she is probably sufering from dipression. i know it hurts to see someone special go through this . :( well i wish you luck and pray.
2006-06-15 12:07:30 · answer #9 · answered by ❤נαcкiε❤ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) keep talking to her
2) tell a trusted high school teacher or counselor, or a minister or priest NOW
this is too big for you ( or any 1 person) too handle by yourself
It is time for you to get reinforcements
2006-06-15 12:05:16 · answer #10 · answered by nickipettis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋