When i started going out with my girlfriend she told me that one of her friends was gonna come down from the east coast to a town that is 93 miles away from where she lives, he wasn't gonna be here untill july well, she just told me that he was already here and that he's gonna be deployed overseas for 3 years, she went to his town yesterday and spend the night she said that she spent the night at her female bosses house, but while she was there she couldn't talk to me on the phone and when she did she was very defensive and she said that maybe she call me later or tomorrow like she didnt even care about me anymore, she says that i always get mad when she goes to that town, and the reason is because she acts different with me like she can care less if i break up with her something that she never does when she's in her town what should i do?
2006-06-15 11:50:11 · 9 answers · asked by mitsu422bishi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it's not ok. From the sounds of it, she was at his house and probably screwing him. If you don't think she would care if you broke up with her...GET IT OVER WITH. If she's getting defensive with you, I would say it's Highly likely she's sleeping with him. As much as it may hurt you to break it off, it won't be as bad as putting up with this, time and time again. You should always put your happiness before someone elses. Life is too short to be miserible, especially for someone other than yourself.
Let her go, it seems she's not holding on to you too tight if she's treating you this way. There are too many women in the world to be worried about one. If you have to worry about what you girlfriend is doing, she's not the one for you.
2006-06-15 12:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your feelings. Don't get angry or defensive. Explain it to her like "I am feeling hurt because", and tell her your needs and wants. Ask her about how she would feel if the situation were reversed.
2006-06-15 11:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its never ok 2 keep sumthing 4rm ur mate. u shouldn't have 2 tell them rite away but eventually the truth comes out so its up 2 u when u tell them.....
2006-06-15 11:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with her it sounds like she could care less about you and your feelings.Get on with your life,enjoy it,life is to precious to waste time on someone like that.
2006-06-16 21:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sad to hear, but she is probally cheating on you bro, dump her for a girl who actually cares about you and your feelings.
2006-06-15 12:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by luke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think its good to keep things from a person because she/he will evantually find out and it will get worse its best to tell it straight up
2006-06-15 11:57:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think theres something going on. because me being a girl and i experienced that i know i hurt my ex by doing that to him. give it time or u know what to do
2006-06-15 11:54:50 · answer #7 · answered by taylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is up to you and yr feelings with her. do you love her or you feel that you need to move on.
2006-06-15 11:55:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if you and you girlfriend cant share everything then it must not be meant to be
2006-06-15 11:54:32 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋