Men, is it really a turn off to see a woman with a bunch of kids and all of them have different dads? Why?

Question

I want to know would this same attitude apply to a woman, maybe with 5 kids, all have the same dad, but she was married, and now is divorced form him?

I agree with some of you, I'm a young women myself, and all my kids have the same dad, and when I see a woman with more than 2 kids and they all have different dads, it looks bad, just like with a guy with 3-5 baby daddys.

Answer 1

I'm not a guy, but obviously that is a sign that she really doesnt know how to keep her legs closed and why would a guy want a girl that has slept around? Esp the young ones with 4 kids and different daddy's.

Answer 2

No b/c then 1st man promised the world, promised to do the right then, then became and alcoholic, started drinking and hitting, so she left. Then the 2nd man was faithful right up until the time when you thought he went hunting with his buddies, and ended up he knocked one up. (The buddy ended up being a buddette instead) You found out when he brought her home with the guys the next morning and the pig they caught. Then the 3rd one, being a country singer and a good ol boy, was really good, sweet talking, and snuck out in the middle of the night to go bar hopping. Now, would you say all of this is the woman's fault for throwing out the trash to provide for the kids? No actually I found one who is now the father to all 3 of the kids and we do everything together as a family. All 3 of the kids are loved, adored and cared for by mom and dad, the one actually in the home, not the sperm donor.

Answer 3

It's a major turnoff to see an women with even one kid and she's not married to the father. Why? because it states that first that you couldn't hack your first marriage and there is a good chance you might not hack the next one either, second men usually want any child they are raising to be there own not some tag along, thirdly men don't want another man in your life that is connected to you romantically, and fourth it says that you rushed into your first marriage full force without seeing if it would work out first.

Answer 4

If you asked the question then you know the answer there's a word for it *** and most men don't want a *** they want someone they can crack but 2. you can't blame it all on the women cause maybe it's the men just won't own up to there own but then we go back to the women and her bad choice in men so it's plain as day she's just a ***

Answer 5

Cause when she has a bunch of kids it shows that she has been taken and if they all have different dad's then the guy's normally think the woman is some kind of slut or something.

Answer 6

I'm a woman and even so I think it doesn't look so good for a woman that has all kinds of kids from different dad. Tha just lets you know how unstable she is.

Answer 7

Because I have to wonder if any one of the fathers is providing support for his child. Do the father's share custody of their child(ren). Who's helping the mother manage the house and children. Who's the male role model for the male children. Who fixes things around the house when something gets broken or the toilet back up. If there's a current man in the house, does he serve as parent to all of the children in the house.

Answer 8

My gf has one frm her previous marriage and i love that kid more than myself. But i dont know how i might have felt if she was in ur situation.

Bunch means? like 2, 3 or 10, 15? if its 2,3 then i guess its gonna be a shocker but then if you are a normal person it shuldnt make a difference. He shudnt get turned off until he sees the baby fat.

Answer 9

Hmmm, to me it not only seems to be a turnoff because the woman would sleep with anyone, but also because she has problems understanding basic contraception/family planning. Dumb women for the lose.

Answer 10

I can't speak for every guy, but you would definitely be someone who I would have a very hard time taking seriously in anything you said. It does not seem like you can commit to anything or anyone person. No offense, but you did ask.