2006-06-15 10:43:43 · 16 answers · asked by Jerome 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take matters into your own hands...
2006-06-15 10:45:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are not specific, but I think we can guess what you mean.
There are many possible causes, but the most common would have to be stress related in some shape or form... If he is married and you are not his wife, then he is no doubt stressed out by guilt. Not a lot you can do there except take longer, relax, and build up gradually. (Alternatively if this is the case it might be best to rethink the relationship!)
If the relationship is simply normal (ie he is not married elsewhere) then it is best to remove the "pressure to perform". Try doing other things without having the expectation of "doing it". Touching, masturbation, kissing, him pleasuring you. Try all over massage with oils. You could see if "catching him unawares" helps (e.g. kiss and touch him on the back row at the cinema/movie theatre). The main thing is to relax, try other stuff and build up to it slowly. I suspect that once the "mental block" is removed there will be "no stopping him"...
Take it easy,
Good luck!
2006-06-15 18:13:24 · answer #2 · answered by Aidy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly,it depends on the relationship between you and him and how much you love him.
if i know that he 'can't do' from the start of our relationship,i will be selfish and just go.
if it is cox of some reasons in the middle of our relationship,of course i will ask him to see the doctor asap to sort it out.also will always support him and side by him.
but if you don't love him much,then listen to me :Leave!!!
2006-06-16 04:38:06 · answer #3 · answered by icy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reassure yourself And him that it is common and not a big deal.... many factors could play a part, such as stress ill health, diet, dont think its because of you..
if happens reg just make the tea yourself!!!
2006-06-15 17:54:51 · answer #4 · answered by sinnedfairy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't do what? the washing up, the housework, or has he trouble getting an erection its ok hun you can say it, if that is the problem send him to his doctor, as soon as possible
2006-06-16 04:03:26 · answer #5 · answered by harrierzero1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can't he do....if your referring to sex, just sit on his face and bring yourself off
2006-06-16 04:57:55 · answer #6 · answered by submike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kamagra. its a jelly form of viagra. tastes lovely and works very well.
2006-06-15 18:13:12 · answer #7 · answered by podge_celt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax start playing around and you mit find something will come up
2006-06-15 17:49:05 · answer #8 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run away an save urself
2006-06-16 04:04:34 · answer #9 · answered by wetnslippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't do what? Be more specific gal.
2006-06-15 17:45:56 · answer #10 · answered by Shaz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋