how to tell my mom?

Question

she found my and my boyfriend having a make out session at my house... how do i tell her that wasnt all we were doing?

im 15 and live with her

after having sex with him, i am pregnant

Answer 1

what else were you doing? You should have your boyfriend tell her...she might believe him more than you.

Answer 2

Well, tell her before you end up pregnant, so she can talk to you about all of that and possibly take you to get birth control if you're not on it already. My mom never talked with me about any of that stuff, so the day she found out I wasn't a virgin anymore (I'd been having sex for a year already) was the day she found out I was pregnant. Don't let it come to that...I wish I would have talked to my mom way before I got myself into that mess because then it probably would have been avoided. It took me getting pregnant to finally be able to talk and be open about sex. Would you rather have that conversation with her, or the "I'm pregnant" conversation?? It should never have to come to that. Oh yeah..I was 15 too.

Answer 3

Do you and your Mom have a good relationship? If you do sit down with her and talk. If you don't have a decent relationship, just let it be what it will be.
I am a parent of a 14 and 16 year old. I myself am only 32 so if you do the math you'll see I was quite young when I had my 1st. I hate to berate you but I bet you and your boyfriend were making out. If that is all that has happened, don't worry about it. If you two decide you want to go farther though you will need to talk to your Mom. and please be safe. Unless your ready to bring a new life into this world...which would be very selfish of you, use protection. Good luck hun!!!!

Answer 4

Explain it to her that he does or doesnt mean something to you.Explain to her how it just happened and you didnt plan it.Just be open the more you hide the more curious shell become leading her to spy on you and then if she does spy on you you wont have to tell her exactly what you did because its all in your journel.Oh yeh you and your mom shouldve had this talk already about sex and when your old enough why you should do it and the obvious outcomes about it.Just be open as your mother she will or she should be able to relate or help or even better congradulate you.But if she hasnt mentioned it which im asuming she hasnt then you need to confront her about it dont wait around because youll never be able to have open conversations with your mother or your friends by just sitting around and waiting to hear what they have to say with they very well may not confront you but lets face it your friends talks are never going to compare to your mothers's.If your not open about these kind of things to your mom who are you going to talk to it about your dad???....that would be very awkward.Your mother will always be there for you no matter how stubborn or even how shy just open up shell admire your bravery for confronting her about it and youll be able to have one of those heart warming mother-daughter talks =P youll feel better and so will she knowing her daughter knows what shes getting into

Answer 5

Why are you gonna tell her more? Parents dont need to know everything. As long as your safe, and you know what your doing, and your ahead of the game, than you dont need to say anything else to her.

Answer 6

why do u want her to know everything u should just keep quit unless u can't i tottally agree with the person that said he should tell her cause she might belive him over you it sounds real bad but it works all the time

Answer 7

Tell her you need to get on birth control asap!

Answer 8

if you want to live... shut your piehole you coward!!!
if you want to be able to keep living your life to its fullest, tell her. The pain will end eventually.

Answer 9

What were you both doing when your mother saw you were you both nude ,if yes then your mother knows it all

Answer 10

tell her its all natural and she probably had done that when she was young too