Two years ago I split up with my ex. When we were together it was a horrible relationship on both our sides. He moved out to Rhodes 7 months later. Two months later i went on a pre booked holiday to Rhodes. Four days after i got there i was raped. The man who raped me made a comment "this ones from (my ex)". There was not enough evidence to prosecute and part of me couldnt belive it was to do with him. Recently i met up with him as i needed to do it so i could try and draw a line under it.All my old feelings came back (stupid i know). Ever since i have been thinking about him and he has asked me to think about starting fresh. It would hurt so many people if i did but i cant stop thinking about him. I dont know what to do.
2006-06-15 09:52:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Any person who could think so little of someone to have them raped is a very dangerous person indeed! What would he do if you got back together & then displeased him or upset him in someway? Have you 'accidentally' run over? No - leave him in your past, and make a future for yourself. If you go back with him, he will think he can control your body, soul & mind. You say your original relationship was horrible on both sides - would that have been because you didn't always do what he wanted? Apart from hurting many people, I think that if you went back to this guy, you be the one who gets hurts the most. Emotionally and physically. Leave well alone and find someone who will treat you with the respect you deserve. If you feel yourself still attracted to your ex, re-live the bad times & how he used to make you feel, and thank god you're out of it! Good Luck & Blessed be.
2006-06-16 03:23:31 · answer #1 · answered by devildriver53 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont have anything else to do with him. hasnt he made u miserable enough? get on with your life and u will find someone who will treat u with love and respect. go forward and dont look back. if u find yourself thinking of him, just remind yourself how horrible the relationship was. ex's are ex's for a reason, dont forget that. best wishes.
2006-06-15 15:13:58 · answer #2 · answered by crophilia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should move forward not back i think you and him are well and truly finished and you are probly just thinking about what would have been rather than what could be leave well enough alone after a while you will meet someone else and you will be able to get on with your life
2006-06-15 10:14:10 · answer #3 · answered by misty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about him, just move on with life. It is not good to dwell in the past.
2006-06-15 09:58:15 · answer #4 · answered by vampire_ryooshi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Just don't do it. Move away, move on. People don't change, not really. Meeting up with people doesn't help you to forget them. You say it would hurt other people. I think it would hurt you too.
Please don't get back with him.
2006-06-15 10:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by nextmountain81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby u need to leave him alone it ain't worth all that, but if u stay u stupid!
2006-06-15 10:08:21 · answer #6 · answered by Te-Te 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋