Is it necessary to pay for a girl on the first date even if I know there wont be a second?

Answer 1

if you want to have any chance of changing it back to a possible second date, you do.

Answer 2

NO. The whole idea of the date is to get to know her. If you know that the3re is not going to be a second date. End it right there. Don't fall into that trap of being a gentleman. Only time a woman uses that is when you haven't done something they want you to do or they are trying to get you to do something. If you know there will not be a second date, end it right there and save your money for dates that will accomplish something. If she says I" I don't kiss or hold hands on the first date, then while your eating something and she ask "where is mine?" tell her "I figure you don't kiss, you don't hold hands, you must not eat on the first date either."

Answer 3

NOOOO!!! Don't make this mistake!! Even if you KNOW you are going out on a second date. First date should always be half and half. I am not about to spend over $40 on someone I may never see again! That is crazy talk!!

Answer 4

Two questions for you. Did you invite her out on the date? Do you want to be seen as a gentleman?

If your answers to those are both yes, then I'm sorry my friend, looks like you are going to have to cough up the dough.

Answer 5

if not too late, cancel the first date if you know there won't be a second. and yes you'll have to pay unless she asked you out.

Answer 6

Yes, especially if you are the one who is choosing not to hvae a second date.

Answer 7

Absolutely. Not paying is rude, makes you seem cheap and gives you a bad reputation. Why would you want to do that?

Answer 8

If you asked her on the date you have to pay. If she asked you then you only have to pay for yourself.

Answer 9

yes cause if you pay for more dates the more dayes you are going to get

Answer 10

Yes, if you asked HER. Follow through. Don't be a clod.