I love this guy who is my best friend...now we are closer than before and we talk every day! But he has a gf and they are dating...6 months! I am NOT going to do anything to break them up...NO WAY! But i just can't find the courage to let him go because of the thing he says...and the way he is with me. We hang out a lot...and now his girlfriend is jealous of me. And she is telling lies about me. And she doesn't want me around him...but we had a huge talk two days ago...where he tolled me all about his gf and how much he loves her...now he is asking me all the time what to tell her and how to act!
I hate my life...it's really UNFAIR! I want to let go...but instead. I find myself trapped inside his heart, crying all day long...especially after that conversation about his girlfriend....what should i do to move on. I really can't do anything!=(((
Thank u all...
2006-06-15 08:42:35 · 4 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its a tough situation you've been to. First you'll have to relax, take a deep breath, unless you're relax you can't think positively and clearly. Then, analyze the situation, are you really willing to drag yourself into misery? just waiting in vain for this guy who is supposed to be your bestfriend. He has a GF whom he loves so much, so where does it leads you, of course into hearthaches. So, before its too late and gets you sinking from the bottom, pick up the pieces of yourself and move on with your own life. He's not the only one on this Earth. You can find somebody who can love you back. Dont waste your time with him, its not right and not good for either of you. All is fair in love and war. You can do it. No one dies with a heart broken. So face it.
2006-06-15 08:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by Francheska 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i think you should let him know how you feel. it seems like you know each other really well. it could be a beautiful thing for you two. dont hold anything back when you tell him either. im sure he feels the same way.
2006-06-15 15:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say that u should just wait for him to break up w/ his gf. dont try to make them, but just wait. not many relationships last forever. when he does, comfort him, and ask him out.
2006-06-15 15:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by bahamadude91 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you just said. How u feel.
2006-06-15 15:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋