how do i get him to notice me?

Question

i really like this guy and were sort of frendz but we just take the mick out of each other i really want him to notice me in a different way and i want him to like me wot can i do without having to confront him about it?

do u no "sleepy head" thats all i've day dreamed abt evrytym i c him!

i rely cnt say it 2 him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WER BOTH 17

Answer 1

Look will you guys please post your age so we can give you the best answer for you age...PLEASE!!!! sigh.

As the full on method Id suggest for a 19 year old is somewhat diff for a 14 year old...

Same end result... so please add yours and his age and Ill answer.


Ah 17 thats much easier...

Engineer a game of strip poker or similar, play wrestle or get more physical. Or winner says do looser does.
Other things could be water sports and you conveiniently have lots of trouble getting in and out of your wetsuit 9forgetting your awards in surfing.)

Where tight reveiling tops angling cleavage... he will try his best not to peek as you pretend not to notice. Dont say anything let him think he is getting away with it. Then later poss next day when he is drinkging and not expecting it. Ask did he like the view yesterday... And watch him choke. And tease him about it.

Similar stunt could be done with a ladder and skirt etc...or accidently on purpose arrange some way a door could be left open whilst you are changing just that little bit etc.

Basically some way to get him to notice you are a girl, a sexy one and for him to think that way about you... Nervous at first till you reveil its cool and he can kiss you if he likes.

Go to the cinema and put your hand around him , see if he does the same and if he stretches to far. if not whisper into his ear doesn't he want to stretch further.

Do something sporting with tight figtting clothes and take your time with the warm up and stretches.

Mostly he will pretend not to notice as he will think you will hate him or think he is out of order for checking out your boobs, butt etc... then let him know its cool if he wants.

Play something and bet your bra.

Or have you ever played nervous?

The rules are generally start with you on him... you slowly start to run your hand up his arm (or leg till he says he is nervous) nervous means stop.

When its his turn forget the stop words or see how far he goes before he bottles it.

Turn a conversation to girls underwear and guys boxers, and what he likes on a girl, what he wpould like you to wear. if he can guess what you are wearing, would he like to see... however far you want to take it.

Let him try and hypontise you and pretend its working, see if he behaves.

Take up pole dancing and ask him to give marks out of ten for your routines

Get the idea?... And why they are not suited to someone younger.

Answer 2

If youve been together as friends for so long then be careful, please make sure he likes you the same otherwise your gonna ruin what sounds like could be a great friendship.

Im older (27) but I remember being 17! Its all flirty and fun, remember its not the end of the world if he dosent feel the same, although by the way you say he is with you "taking the mick" etc, this is what young lads tend to do when they like someone more than mates.

Why not get a mutual mate to ask him what he thinks of you without letting it slip you like him, that way you will know before makeing a move.

Ask him out as a mate, to the cinema or for something to eat, even just shopping in town, get to know him better, then youve got more of a chance finding out if your compatable.

Wish u all the luck in the world

Answer 3

Make him jealous - get flirty with loadsa different guys, spend your attention on another lad - you'll see by his reaction if he feels the same way.
Alternatively just hint at how you thing you two get on so well and you wish that you could find a boyfriend just like him, then kinda make it into a joke and be like - whatcha think, would we ever work out? If he looks horrified laugh it off and be like, yeah I thought the same thing, if he doesnt shrug the idea off immediately - you're in there!!!

Answer 4

Just tell him you like him. It's not a confrontation, just a simple question. If he doesn't fancy you, then you'll both probably just laugh about it and continue on as friends.

If you say nothing, then you'll just become more hung up on it. Think about it.....someone like say....Angelina Jolie is a cool woman, right?!? OK, well she would definitely tell him and be cool with whatever answer he gives, cos it's not the end of the world is it!?

Be cool

Answer 5

I don't really think that you have much choice, confronting him is probably the only way to be sure, I guess you could try wearing sexy clothes around him, maybe get your hair done differently or change your make- up, but in the end I think you will have to say something.

Answer 6

Easy peasy
Try valantimes day and buy him gifts such as favoured chocs or a card, pay for a meal/ drink and if he asks why tell him because you two are friends- that will get him thinking as means of returning the gesture work from there.
Wink at him? wear something he likes you wearing.
Use your imagionation, be creative

Answer 7

Lol simple.... the thing about men is they have realy big egos, and they take u for granted. At the moment ur his freind so he's got nothin to worry about.

Flirt with someone else, make him jealous. If he likes u I promise u it will work.

Good Luck

Answer 8

what I did when I was in this same situation is...I had his and my friend go over and just start having a normal conversation...then my/his friend said something good about me... for ex. "me and amanda went to the movies last weekend, she is so funny!" this sparked an interest and he came over and started talking to me!!! we have been going out for 3 months !!!

Answer 9

Trust yourself. Gain some self confidence.
Nietzsche says: "If you believe, the whole world believes with you"

Answer 10

Ask him out, even if it's just for something you both like, such as the cinema etc. You don't ask, you don't get, is my motto