okay, so i asked out this girl like back in november, but she said no because she wanted to be just friends. now about two days ago she wrote to me on the im, i like u u are everything ive been looking for for a long time but i know you can do better than me and if anyone knew how i felt about you then they would laugh at me. the truth is, im still totaly in to her!! do you think i should ask her out?? why??
2006-06-15 08:40:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes i think you should alot of people think relationships depend on friendship so now that she kinda got a picture of what you are really like now she is ready
2006-06-15 08:43:39 · answer #1 · answered by shauna l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uhh..no. And i'll tell you why. Obviously this chick doesn't know what she wants. If she is so concerned about what her friends think, then let her date her friends. As soon as her friends tell her to go after the next guy that comes along she'll go after him behind your back. You see, girls are alot sneakier than guys when it comes to cheating. And the worst thing is that they always find a way to justify it somehow. This chick sounds like she'd say that you two weren't really serious and and so it would be ok for her to bang some other dude. Plus it sounds like you'd be too freaking nice to the chick. And dont believe a chick when she says she wants a nice guy. That's a lie. Chicks want a dude that will make them feel like a woman. If you're too nice to a chick then she gets turned off and turns to someone that will make her feel like she is earning their attention. So if you insist on dating this broad. Give her the cold shoulder for a while and make her earn your attention. That way if things don't work out, you can atleast say that you weren't her lap dog. Which trust me, feels great!
2006-06-15 15:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...but read again what she wrote...*and if anyone knew how i felt about you then they would laugh at me...*This is kind of stupid..she likes u but she is worried about what people say..?
this want be a good relationship...if she does that...but u are young...so why don't u ask the girl out?
2006-06-15 15:46:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it seems like you should ask her out cause you like her. but then again think about it she said no cause she just wanted to be friends, maybe she started to look at something she rejected and was like hey he's not half bad. but then when you guys get together and she realizes that she's not really interested then that is heartbreak city for you. if i were you i wouldn't ask her out. but i would "im" her back asking her why she rejected you in the first place and depending on her answer go from there do they sound reassuring or what? you decide....
2006-06-15 15:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by oaklandolee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say watch out for alternative motives in that one.. but yes go out with her and just see what she's about... Give her a fair chance if you don't liek her at first it might just be because she originally said no. But I have had only "friend" feelings before and then later on realized I liked the guy... so yes go for it !!!
2006-06-15 15:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by bustownohio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should, life is too short, and wasting time thinking about it, you might allow someone else to step in where you want to be, what is the harm in trying it again, enjoy the day, or time spent.. live a little, with a warm smile saying yessssss i did that and got that to
2006-06-15 15:56:29 · answer #6 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that friends make great companions but if shes worried that her so called friends will laugh at her. She needs to not worry about them. She needs to live her life for her and you for you. No one can determine your happiness but you. Love is an incredible feeling. Do you want to go on with life thinking should I have taken a chance?
2006-06-15 15:46:14 · answer #7 · answered by chasity g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and like both are funny things
If you still like her and you want too than go for it. No one can tell your heart what to do. It seems like she is alittle insecure about starting a relationship with you so talk about it first and than see what happens
2006-06-15 15:44:16 · answer #8 · answered by prettyinanything 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to date someone with serious self-image problems, go for it. Trust that if anything develops, you are in for one nasty ride...she will never trust you because she thinks you are too good for her, and thinks you know it...sort of a Pity date thing. Get real..can't you do better than that?
2006-06-15 15:43:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. She probably needed some time to THINK, but why did she IM you and not call you? Wait, does she even have your phone number or just your ID? Did you even give her your ID?
2006-06-15 15:44:33 · answer #10 · answered by ~KP~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋