my ex girlfriend of 2 and a half years took a break 7 months ago and i found out she is pregnant by a guy she is seeing for 5 months. she used to call occasionally but hasnt in the last month. she doesnt know that i know but why hasnt she called me yet, she loved my *** alot i spoiled her alot and we took a break cuz she said being with one guy for the rest of her life is scary. she moved in with him and his mom and i still love her, but i wonder will she ever call me to let me know. Does she still love me . i know and understand she could love him 2 but its too soon to get caught up. He gots a kid already and no car and job.
2006-06-15 08:33:46 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on with your life...your past is just that....past, and she is a part of the PAST. She has told you as much by NOT calling any more. What part of this do you not understand?
2006-06-15 08:36:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when people love someone they keep info from the one they love because they are either embarrassed or they know they did wrong and love you so much they don't want to hurt you with the truth so they just keep away.
You say you still love her , but would you love her the same with someone Else's child?? Maybe that is what is keeping her away, she knows she cant just show up to you and say I'm back.
Why don't you try to talk to her and have a decent conversation, no pointing fingers or judgments , just a civil talk to find out what happened and maybe you can find some closure if not a relationship with her again.
2006-06-15 15:44:41 · answer #2 · answered by wonderwoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you possibly still have feeling for such dame??? Maybe, Maybe not to be honest not anybodys business but yours in that matter. As for the problem that you are presenting. If the problem of her staying with one guy for the rest of her life is scary, she may have a problem with commitment. And maybe it is a situation that you may not want to throw yourself into depending on if you are looking for something long term and permanent. If the two of you are as good of friends as you think you are, then yes she will call. But possibly if she does not call that may signal that your relationship is not as strong as you had hoped, and maybe it is time to start moving on. But the thing that you have to realize is that she is pregnant with the child of another man. So there are certain limits that you have to respect now in order to give that relationship the best chance of success. Yes in the way that you stated that he has no job and no car, it sounds as though she may have her work cut out for her and if you care about her the way you say that you do you will be there for her for a shoulder if need be. Um... I rambled on a little but I hope that maybe I have given you something that you could use. Good Luck!!!!
2006-06-15 15:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by ambiegirl5544332000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently she doesn't love you if she left you for someone else. Leave her alone. It's just making you look real desperate. You shouldn't really care about what is going on her life anymore. You really need to move on. If she said that being with one guy for the rest of her life is scary... uh... hello... that's a sign meaning that she's through with you... she's a SLUT!!
2006-06-15 15:40:32 · answer #4 · answered by UnKnOwN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she might not call you for the simple fact that she might be ashamed of what she's done. maybe she doesnt' like the guy or the simple fact that she's gonna have the baby of a loser is good reason not to call your loving ex. maybe she just hasn't gotten over your really good and she need to push away alittle to just see what's up with her. not to mention the fact that she said to be with one guy is scary now she's stuck with someone that sucks and she's gonna have to deal with this person for the rest of her life.
2006-06-15 15:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by oaklandolee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a really complicated situation that you should be thankful that you are not a part of. Maybe she fears that you will not see her the same way, or she is just busy with the pregnancy.
Let her know you will always be there for her.
2006-06-15 15:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by teena9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An ex is an ex for something... don't live of your past. Let her go, forget about her... you will find somebody who will really love you and care. That thing of being scared of commitment as an excuse for a breakup is bull***t to me. She doesn't deserve your tears...
2006-06-15 15:46:50 · answer #7 · answered by Lulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that other person is right leave with that no job wonder. u deverse someone who wants to b with u. and u can tell she can't committ to one person cuz i said she can't b with someone for ever. find someone who wants to be with u and only u. let her have a life to her baby and his kid. find someone else to love. don't waste your time with her. just think about this whole thing as a learning experience. she loved your what? aways go spoil someone else that loves u as much as u love them.
hope this helps
2006-06-15 15:46:50 · answer #8 · answered by Yoshi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She dont love you...... hell she dont even love herself!!!!......... move on theres alot more fish in the sea...... she seems to be confused...... and dumb being with a straight up loser! Dude dont even have a job, a car, and still lives with his mommy...... I'd say good bye a long time ago... You seem to be better than that.
2006-06-15 15:40:26 · answer #9 · answered by Jewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your ex and it isn't your kid, stay out of it. Obviously, she has moved on and you need to as well. You may think her situation isn't ideal, but she may be happy. Let her live her life and you live yours.
2006-06-15 15:39:33 · answer #10 · answered by MJL613 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋