We both have friends of both sexes, but lately she has been spending more time with one in particular and admittedly i'm getting pretty jealous, but i havn't wanted to say anything because i try to be supportive and not a pain in the ***. What do you think?
2006-06-15 08:22:32 · 11 answers · asked by stratocastinator 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell her you are kinda jealous, and just want to make sure you two are still on the same page. she might think its silly at first, but afterwards, she'll realize you are hers, and just want her as much as she wants you.
2006-06-15 08:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by ckck1978 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can let her know how you feel with out being a pain in the bu**. If you cant really tell her how you feel now, then what makes you think there will be good communication between the 2 of you in the future. I say , just say what you feel, don't say anything else other than exactly what you feel and why.
I don't think it's correct to spend a lot of time with friends who are of the opposite sex when it makes one of you uncomfortable.
One thing is to be supportive and the other is to swallow your feelings (in the long run this is not good).
Talk, talk, talk.
2006-06-15 08:32:14 · answer #2 · answered by wonderwoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what spending time means. If they are watching The Notebook together, you should thank him. If they are going out to eat, dancing, or are hangin out while you are gone, you should get a blacklight for the bed test. THE BIGGEST THING is how much she talks about him. If every word that comes out of her mouth, or his name is present in what you might consider, too many instances. ...... then there is a big problem...... If they have been best friends for many years, you are being insecure. If they dated previously, you might want to buy a gun and a shovel.
2006-06-15 08:27:44 · answer #3 · answered by soccerplayinjuggalo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 seconds
2006-06-15 08:29:04 · answer #4 · answered by karrie k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel. That she is spending to much time with this particular person. And it is making you a little bit jealous.
2006-06-15 08:28:30 · answer #5 · answered by letish869 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My maximum acceptable buddy is a guy. he's engaged and in a pleasant and satisfied courting. i visit him with suggestion for each little thing and he does a similar with me. He hasn't ever tried to get with me nor I him. My boyfriend loves the guy and trusts him thoroughly with me. appears like you've had a nasty journey and also you're bitter. do not assume that each and each and every man or woman friendships with the alternative sex are like that. Edit:you truly imagine you comprehend all of it do not you? My mom and father took this guy in even as he grow to be 13 years previous and grow to be raised as quite somewhat my brother. i'm in the route of him than i'm all and sundry on earth. I have also favourite his fiance on condition that severe college and she or he's accepted with the problem, we are close too. So close that i might want to be the maid of honor of their wedding ceremony! We evaluate ourselves to be somewhat a small kinfolk. Him and that i carry anyplace/each and every time/in spite of the undeniable fact that we favor. We carry out jointly with his fiance, we carry out with my boyfriend, we visit lunch jointly, we go paying for jointly, we carry out at his apartment on my own, he spends the evening at my apartment often times, we go out for beverages, we visit the flicks.. i imagine you get the perception. Like I reported, he's amazingly somewhat my brother and how dare you call me naive. i do not comprehend, i wager all of us are protect adequate in our kinfolk that we do not ought to fret about jealousy or human beings like you doubting our friendship. there is this component said as believe that our significant others have in us.. loopy, appropriate?
2016-11-14 19:54:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try to control her, but there is nothing wrong with u voicing ur opinion... having friends is healthy..come right out and express ur fellings dont keep them pent up inside..communication is the key
2006-06-15 08:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by wildspirit1313 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is a fire in the kitchen. You're a guy. You know how we think. And that's where it will go if she allows it. Sad but true.
2006-06-15 08:31:56 · answer #8 · answered by Irish 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you go jumping to conclusions make sure you have concrete evidence. It ain't nothing wrong with protecting your heart but don't jump the gun.
2006-06-15 08:27:47 · answer #9 · answered by Tae Kwon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 MINUTES
2006-06-15 08:25:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋