What do you say when sorry is not enough?

Question

I am in love with a perfect guy, yes i said perfect. He is sexy, sensual, passionate and caring. well, to make a long story short. I have lost his love and trust through my lies and deceit. I made a mistake and am paying for it with every breath I take. How can I make him know that my every waking moment revolves around him. PLZZZZZZ HELP......THANX

Answer 1

if youve apoligized sincerely, then there is nothing else you can do, except follow thru on your promises of change, etc. it is up to him to forgive you, and nothing you can do/say can make him do that. good luck!

Answer 2

First of all, your every waking moment should not revolve around him. That's a bit excessive - you should still have a life of your own. Secondly, once you have lost trust, it is up to the other person whether they want to forgive you and let you back in. He has every right not to trust you again because of what you din. Why should he risk being hurt again by you. Third, sorry is followed by actions and actions are followed by time. If he lets you, you would prove to him by your actions - no more lies and deceit - and over time, he will see that you can be trusted. If being the perfect guy wasn't enough to keep you from lies and deceit, why would he think that you'd be any different. You words have become meaningless to him because you were a liar. Show him through honesty that you have changed. Anything else would be a waste of time.

Answer 3

There is nothing else to say and that guy is not perfect he just seems like it. If he was so perfect you wouldn't of lied to him and decieved him. You need to get out and find other guys. Do things and stop thinking about that guy. the more you think about him the more heart broken you will be when you find out he doesn't want you anymore and isn't coming back. There are plentey of guys out there so go have some fun with being single!!!!!:)

Answer 4

Unfortunately, this problem, like many problems in life, is easier to avoid than to solve. You have probably lost him for good, and hanging on will only make the situation worse for both of you. Your only hope of reviving this relationship is to level with him about how you feel about him, how miserable you are that you hurt him, and (possibly most importantly) if he forgave you for this mistake, how you would NEVER do it again. Then ask him to take you back, and respect his decision whatever it is. He may risk his heart a second time with you, or he may not. If he takes you back, you're good to go. If he doesn't, keep your head up and walk away with honor. Either way, I urge you to consider your actions carefully. Good luck to you, and God Bless You!

Answer 5

There is only one thing to do -- call him so you can meet somewhere together and tell him everything open your heart and admit you lied -- there is nothing more you can do than that then it will be up to him what he will decide -- i wish you all the best from the bottom of my heart

Answer 6

Nothing, that's all you can say. Trust means more than love with a guy.

Answer 7

maybe you should just give him time. if you were truely in love with this guy you wouldnt have lied to him. Its easy to walk over somebody, and if you do it long enough they just give up. mabye your not in "love" with him just in "love" with the fact he has all the qualities that you mentioned.

Answer 8

find time to talk to him.set the mood rite,luk into his eyes and tell him how you really feel.if he is what you say he is ,he will understand and if you mean what you say hopefully it will work out..

Answer 9

sorry is never enough how is a word supposed to change everything

Answer 10

i;ll say **** that ****