How long does it take a girl to know if she wants to date a guy or not?

Question

Like how many times do you have to "hang out", or how long do you have to know each other before she knows whether or not she wants to take it further. Some people say it takes only minutes and some say it takes weeks, so what do yall think?

Answer 1

Sometimes minutes, sometimes weeks.

I’ll try to give you a better explanation:

Sometimes girls feel an almost instant “chemistry” of attraction soon after meeting a guy, but that’s not always true for couples who eventually date or even fall in love. Even if she's attracted to you, she might not want to start "dating" right away. Some girls don’t like to rush into intense relationships and prefer instead to begin with friendship, which can then evolve naturally into much more. (It depends on the girl's history and situation in life, how comfortable she is with romance and commitment, etc.) A girl like this may not admit wanting to date the guy even to herself…though she obviously enjoys his companionship. She’ll “hang out” while she slowly gathers the courage to give her heart: and in her case, any guy who wants more than friendship will need patience. However, bear in mind, she’s probably the kind who won’t be fickle and will commit thoroughly…in other words, worth the wait. Remember, too, while you’re “hanging out”, you aren’t wasting your time. If you end up as a couple, your friendship will help your romance be stronger and last longer.

So, how can you tell if a girl “friend” is attracted to you, but for whatever reason won’t show it? Pay attention to a few of these details: How much effort does she put into her appearance when she sees you? (Will she let you see her all sweaty with smeared make-up, etc? If it's often "yes", she probably doesn't consider you a potential date.) If you talk openly with her about another girl, how does she react? (Be careful here…if you like her, make only a quick comment to watch its effect…then back it off…you don’t want to make her even more afraid to act on her attraction to you!) Try something like: Do you think *insert girl’s name here* is cute? –watch her reaction, if she seems jealous, etc., she probably likes you, so cover yourself by saying “Because my friend *guy’s name here* likes her, but she’s not really my type.”

I hope that makes sense!

Answer 2

If you need to decide whether or not you want to go out with someone, it wont last. It happened to my friend. I called that one from the start.

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Answer 3

Within the first 5 minutes of meeting you a girl has already made up her mind.

Answer 4

I think it could be within the first meeting of the guy. The female already has a vision of whether he is worth her time or not.

Answer 5

a girl knows within the first 5 min. of meeting a guy

Answer 6

takes minutes to weeks

Answer 7

I'll say if girls asks u question abt you she'd be interested ! If this continues for a considerable time she wants to go on with you or else she would make lame xcuses to pull her away from you and ....

Answer 8

it depends.... if i know that person i might already had a secret little crush inside and not have said anything or if i just met him i would need 7 to 10 days at least, you would know more than you think by then.

Answer 9

There is no exact moment because sometimes it happens i a split second and other times it takes a while

Answer 10

ha idk but i know a guy thinks he can tell within the first five minutes. and no, not just by looks. they do consider a personality. at least some do.