I met this guy, and we have been talking. He is very attractive. When we started to hook up, he couldnt keep his penis hard. he said it was because I am the GF type,and he felt like he was taking advantage. Is this common, or did he just not like me, or is it because he is a body builder and he takes too many supplemenst?
2006-06-15 08:10:42 · 48 answers · asked by gigerninfo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you like dating him. Date him. Perhaps he has morals and doesn't want to use you. Or maybe you should just move on to the next guy.
It sounds like you've been around and It sounds like you are going to hurt this fellow. Better to end it now before he falls in love with you if he hasn't already.
2006-06-15 08:18:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you really are very attractive, Then he is either gay, or very christian. Also like you said if he's taking steroids, it will shrink his penis, and cut the blood flow to it, thus complicating his erection. Now if he realy happens to be one of those very few guys out there, who truly respect someone who they feel setious about , then yeah he would hesitate to engage with you, cause he sees you not as a one night stand, but more like a long term relationship. That means that to him it should take longer before you guys start having sex, rather then going for it the first day.
Also notice that you said he couldnt keep it hard, that means he either does'nt find you attractive, or he is gay, cause even if he didnt want to do it for respect, he should of still had a hard on(I know I would).
He seems to be what you like, but not what you want.
2006-06-15 08:25:29 · answer #2 · answered by stud989 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmmmm if you can't get a man to bed you! Be very happy, that he might be takin his time trying to respect you, however you should know there are men out there that don't care about getting to know you at all but just want to tap that azz.. So you need to ask urself, do you want a man to respect you and treat you like the lady you are and wait? Do you want a man to treat you like a piece of meat, and in the end you get shyte but a infection you can't cure!! and he'll be calling you a hoe!! Sex is not everything in a relationship, build a solid friendship first
2006-06-15 08:17:24 · answer #3 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok lets look at this logically:
1) he is so pummmmped up he can't function
2) he is on so many drugs even Carter's Liver Pills ain't got nothin on him.
3)he's gay and you were his one try at a hetersexual relationship
4) you were just a bet and his conscience got the better of him
5) the cialis or viagra hadn't kicked in
6) he is just lying to the whole world
7) the closet became a scary place
8) I guess he didn't think your beauty was skin deep
9) May be a virgin and got scared cuz he had no condom
10) may have been a fishy smell ... ewwww just a thought I wasn't there and so am only interjecting here
2006-06-15 08:21:52 · answer #4 · answered by lisa n florida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A reason why I believe males have trouble getting an erection is because they have so many other things on their mind that distract them from being able to focus on what's going on. I don't believe that if you are attracted to a female you cannot get aroused. Some things you can do to help him is give him a massage. Try to get his mind clear of anything else going on in his life. Kiss him while you feel on his body but do it slowly. What you wanna do is set a relaxed scenario not one where he feels pressured to have an erection.
2006-06-15 08:17:21 · answer #5 · answered by "Q" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This relationship isn't going anywhere. I think you need to get envolved in an activity like learning how to dance the Tango. Then dance with different partners and all of a sudden the vibes will be right.
2006-06-15 08:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by fatsausage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be so many things because sex is just as much mental as it is physical. So it could be because he does feel like he is taking advantage of you,or maybe he's gay. whatever, you are young and hot, so it should be easy to find some other guy to have sex with you
2006-06-15 08:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by Erica j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first commenter beat me to it... He's in denial that he's gay. In fact, I'll bet that when he does come out, he'll be the more feminine one in the relationship. Because it sounds like he wants to be taken advantage of a little. Or maybe he's Bi. Probably 85% Gay, 15% straight. Maybe even more gay.
2006-06-15 08:15:24 · answer #8 · answered by Blue Sky Dreaming 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ill go with the gay and the muscle supplements. I have a friend that was in to the whol workout supplement deal, and lets say that many a female had a laugh ........ it's either that or you just aren't as hot as you think you are. since you aren't dating, this would have been the ideal time for him. He's covering something up....... could be dysfunction
2006-06-15 08:14:37 · answer #9 · answered by soccerplayinjuggalo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drugs could be the case and also it could be the fact that he is not attracted to you just because you are attractive to your self and others doesnt mean that he thinks that way he could be cool with the idea of the two of you just being freinds with out the sex you should take time and ask him how does he feel about you
2006-06-15 08:23:21 · answer #10 · answered by yideopen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋