I use to stay with a boyfriend that i was really cool with intil we moved in together. A while later he was just starting to get really distant from me and just being mean all the time. I would try to leave but he would beg me to stay. I thought he was weird. I didnt have many boyfriends before I just thought all guys are like that. Cant trust any of them. What do u think?
2006-06-15 07:53:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Living together is very different from just being a couple. You learn habits and vices of people that you never imagined would exist. Plus, you end up being with each other a lot more often than when you didn't live together. A pair of best friends can have known each other their whole lives, then move in together and have the same problems as a couple might. It takes time and effort to adjust to living together for many people.
2006-06-15 07:59:10 · answer #1 · answered by creativereading 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lack of honest communication, and the need of one party to control the other. In many cases, women who move in with men, want to change everything about their environment, this however is completely wrong. Compromise is a great thing, if only women would learn what it is. The single greatest cause of quarrels between couples living together - girls going through men's pockets, phone-books, personal item searching for dirt, make assumption, without cause. Honesty is best. We live on a planet with two sexes, were going to see many of each opposites, men who are satisfied at home don't hunt, women who hunt at home don't satisfy. For more on this email.
2006-06-15 08:03:21 · answer #2 · answered by Insight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never really know someone till you live with them. That's why they say the first year of being married is the toughest - getting to know the other person. Both of you have to compromise - a lot.
Even if you've known somebody your whole life, it will be much different if you live in the same house as them.
2006-06-15 07:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply - People are on their best behavior when they're dating. You can't keep that up 100% of the time, so you begin to see little things about each other that begin to bug you. If there's no compromise, then it will never work. Both sides must be willing to put up with a few imperfections.
2006-06-15 07:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by FozzieBear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
living together is a big deal. as much as you love someone, you still need your personal time and space. you discover new things about a person when you live together like if they are messy or if they have little habits that are annoying. don't worry, all guys are not like that.
2006-06-15 08:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by Niecy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once people move in together its a totally different thing. u see how they live, learn things u never knew and might just get tired of them being around constantly.
2006-06-15 07:57:08 · answer #6 · answered by rogdogg187 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet thats the reason you shouldnt shack up with boys.
It is also smart to get to know someone before you move in with them.
2006-06-15 08:00:03 · answer #7 · answered by Addie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not sure of what he wants. He wants your companionship but not the role of playing house. He is scared right now....
2006-06-15 07:58:16 · answer #8 · answered by Pammie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bcause now they see each other all the time and now they feel they dont have space
2006-06-15 07:56:41 · answer #9 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋