my boyfriend is always getting mad over stupid thing's like if i go to the mall with my friend's what should i

Question

do he is allway's think iam with other guy ?can any body tell what to do

Answer 1

Although I have yet to have a true boyfriend I do read tons of magazines and many have had articles about these kind of situations.
You should talk to him about it. This does not mean to just casually throw it in while you are together but to actually sit him down and tell him what you are feeling.
He probably says these things because he feels as if you are spending to much time with your friend and not a lot with him.
So I suggest setting aside a specific time just for you to spend with him.
This does not mean ignoring your friends. You are allowed to have your own life outside of the relationship just as he is allowed to.

Answer 2

How old are you? How old is he? Do you live together?

Some of that stuff ^^^^ may contribute to your dilemma, but if you want a straight, easy answer, the answer is: Get rid of that boyfriend.
He's a control freak whether anybody realizes it or not, and it's not a healthy relationship, especially when you say he "is always getting mad," rather than something like, "doesn't like it when I...."
There's a difference between dislike, disapproval, and anger. When a guy gets mad over things that don't concern him, it's usually a pretty good sign that it's time for the girl to get out while she still can.

Answer 3

Oh my god don't u notice this early control? He is insecure for some reason that has nothing to do with you. Tell him and mean it that you have your own life, which now includes him, but won't if he continues with this. Other guys will notice you just like he did, but if he continues not to trust you, it ruins all the fun you seen in him originally. He is taking all the fun away and being obsessive.
Not good for either of u. If he is not dangerous he will get it!, if he continues you have a bigger problem and need additional advise.
Good Luck, and Take Care! And trust your instincts! Maryanne

Answer 4

Your boyfriend has a trust issue. Therefore communication with him is extremely important. Sit him down and ask him in a calm and soft tone why he feels the way he does. Since he believes that your are seeing someone else it is important to explain to him that that isn't the case. Invite him along with you and your friends when you go to the mall. More than likely he will bore easily and in the future understand and not have any issues with you hanging out with your friends.

Answer 5

I'm not gonna tell you to dump him, cause a decision like that you should be the one to think of with out having anyone else telling u to, but if he really loves you and he is doing that out of love then try to talk to him and sort it out, or even try to take him sometimes when u are going to the mall, tell him you could meet me in the mall if u are suspecting anything, then he will know that he was wrong to say anything about u again. trust me it's hard to find someone good who loves u this days, someone whom u love too.

Answer 6

Have you ever cheated on him? Have you ever given him reasons to think you are unfaithful? If you've answered yes, you have your answer. If not, think carefully about your relationship. If you're relationship is new, he might be insecure with it still. He might be scared he will lose you, that you might find someone new and exciting. If your friends are guys, that is also a problem causer. Ask him calmly why he has a problem with it, and if he can't rationally talk to you about it, maybe you should rethink you're relationship with him. Extreme jealousy might also be signs of a cheater as well. I've dealt with that, it isn't fun.

However, if you care about each other, you guys will work things out. :)

Answer 7

Leave his *** right now, get rid of his ***. That is not a good sign, if he is that jealous then he is going to start be possessive, and controlling. Then he going to start beating on your ***, he might then hit u the wrong way, may not even mean to and kill you. I had a friend die her freshmen year of high school, 9 months pregnant killed by her boyfriend. It's to many men out there, you don't belong to no one man even if he has papers on you. You, your own person, don't allow no one to control you, be littile you, nor hold you down. If he is starting to act crazy it will only get worse let his *** go and find you someone else. Please sweet heart. Take my advice, I'm not going to tell you nothing wrong. I have no reason to I don't even know you.

Answer 8

Well for sure he doesnt trust you, and trust is what it takes to make a relationship works.And if i were you, i would sit down and talk to him and just tell him how it is, that if he dont trust you then you shouldnt be with him, cause thats a jealous side too, and you dont need a guy like that,telling you what to do and what not to do,cuz thats not right so if i were you i would tell him to back off a lil bit and if he doesnt then just dump him.

Answer 9

yes you can get rid of him now before he becomes abusive. this is a classic sign, he's trying to control your movements, your behavior, your friends and your emotions. he's a control freak and he's jealous...both of which are issues in HIS head and have nothing to do with you, i guarantee he treats every girl he's with like this and its demeaning, not trusting you and being jealous do NOT mean he loves you, the exact opposite is true in fact it means he thinks you aren't worth trusting, is that what you want from someone who is supposed to think you are all that? don't even get involved with this any further and don't get into the habit of letting some guy run you, having a secure and trusting boyfriend that you can be yourself around and talk to about what you did with your friends is sooooo much better.

Answer 10

It's sounds like your boyfriend is very controlling. It is unhealthy for him to not want you to hang out with your girlfriends. He is obviously highly insecure if he worries that you are cheating on him just because you go out shopping with your friends. It is unhealthy for you and him both to be in a controlling relationship. Unfortunately there is nothing you can do to change these types of people. I don't want to tell you to break up with him because that is your decision but I will tell you that if you stay with him, you are probably going to wind up losing most of your friends. I know this from personal experience with a very controlling boyfriend. They alienate you from your friends with their controlling and jealous behavior until you have no friends left. I know you may like this guy but it doesn't sound like he is good for you if he gets angry with you over things like that. I suggest you look for a guy who is more understanding.