I need lots of opinions...
I like this guy and he is friends with my ex. Its been a long time though and it was a short relationship, so I didn't it would be a problem to approach his friend. Him and I didn't meet when I was dating my ex...anyway when I approached him, he seemed interested, from his body language, he turned his whole body towards me, he was so close to me when he was speaking (in a low voice) that I thought he was about to kiss me. He also kept on looking at my lips than my eyes, then my lips...I asked him if he would call if I gave him my number and he said Yeah , smiling and stuff, he repeated the number and asked if thats what it is after I wrote the number down..A week passed, he still didn't call, I am pretty impatient and aggresive I dont like people to waste my time, so I decided to ask him why he didn't call...he said he was really busy but told me not to worry because he will definitely call...I waited that weekend and he didn't call again so I figured this
2006-06-15 07:27:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
guy was playing me, I decide to pull him aside again and I asked him to just straight out tell me if he is interested or not? He said YES I am interested but gave me excuses..anyway I have not talked to him since than..but I am curious to know why he did that. What do you guys think?
2006-06-15 07:28:57 · update #1
He always stares at me though and he is a baseball player, I went to one of his games and when it was his turn he couldn't even hit one time...He is usually a decent player but when he saw me there he couldn't hit.. He got so mad afterwards..
2006-06-15 07:31:42 · update #2
dear friend i read your question!!!!
i think he likes you more.may be your beauty and good approach all things might attract him.but, some thing blocking him to get close to you.may be he has girl friend already. or he have some economic problem like spending money for maintaining girlfriend..
checkout with him. whats his problem.how can you help him out.
if you do that.definitely he will mingle with you.
all the best.
2006-06-15 07:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by rayer_1977 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
From your question, I'd say move on. You waited a week, then confronted him, waited a weekend, and still nothing. Unless you're content being a "filler" for this guy (you know, filling in between other girls), and your description of yourself of being impatient and aggressive, I don't think you would be, move on.
In my situation, a girl gave me her number and I was going to call when my schedule settled down. She called within a week and we started going out 2 days later. It blossomed into a beautiful relationship that lasted 11 years, but fizzled when she moved to the West Coast. But my point is, you gave him a chance, and if he's too caught up in whatever to appreciate you ...
I tell you straight up, if you lived anywhere near me, and gave me that chance (oh, and were anywhere near my age. I get the impression that at most you're in your 20's and that would be cradle robbing) there'd be no hesitation!
Good luck in whatever you choose!
2006-06-15 14:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by Carl S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a guy, but I can tell you guys talk and I am almost 99 % certain he knows now of yur past with his friend. Guys are like girls, they add to each story each time they tell it ? So needless to say I am certain your ex has made it out to worse than it was. Therefore leaving him on the I am not so sure I wanna talk to you phase. Leave well enough alone and if he is truly interested he will call. If not I sure would not be sitting by the phone waiting for him to dial my number. Best of luck to you and enjoy life :)
2006-06-15 14:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by young at heart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said you do not like wasting your time but it seems that you are really hung up and wasting lots of time with this guy. If he calls, he calls... You are most likely scaring him with all the questions and going to his baseball game...that sounds kinda stalkish. When I met my fiance, he got my number and waited almost three weeks to call me...I think he liked the fact that I didn't have huge expectations of him. Just chill, move on with your life, date other guys and give him some time to decide if he wants to call you. I doubt the "ex" thing is an issue you need to concern yourself with. If its over...its over. Good luck!
2006-06-15 14:43:04 · answer #4 · answered by Sherrie L B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are jerks even when they don't mean it, i once waiting around for a month for a guy to call, then he finally did. Why don't you just call him and make plans to get together. The other thing is don't annoy him or seem desperate, guys don't like that. Just have patience. If he is a jerk and wants to play you, he would have already been trying to get in your pants, but that is n't the case. So just slow down and wait for him to call, even if it does take a month or two.
2006-06-15 14:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's playing hard to get because he wants you to chase him, but he's obviously too chicken to call you. I wouldn't waste my time. The beginning of a relationship is supposed to be where the guy showers you with attention and treats you the best ever, if this is any indication, this guy isn't worth your time.
2006-06-15 14:32:34 · answer #6 · answered by ericalsmith2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it is right to date an ex's friend but if ur interested in each other then go for it girl. If u have his number call him. My friend wanted to date my ex the same day i broke up with him. I told her i didn't want her to even though I broke up with him and was mad at her.Do what you want but I'm telling u my opinion is that u shouldn't go out with an ex's friend. Look at if a friend wanted to go out with your ex. Would u want her to or be happy with it. good luck and follow ur heart.
2006-06-15 14:40:00 · answer #7 · answered by monkeygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to tell u but u sound desperate, if he didnt call u its very abvious that he is not interested, no matter how much u like someone if they are not calling u back then its good to try once and if they dont respond give it up!
2006-06-15 14:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by 2_good_2_be_true;) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if you are being your own worst enemy by acting like you are so desperate - that isn't attractive at all.
Leave him alone - if he calls he calls, if not consider it his loss and move on.
2006-06-15 14:32:46 · answer #9 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually the men like to be the "predators" he may be interested in you but it may be just for a "jump off" or a "booty call". be care full.
2006-06-15 14:40:33 · answer #10 · answered by butter200235 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋