me and my boyfriend have been dating for 14 months. we are only 16 & 17 yrs old and i know that this is most likely NOT going to last forever. he loves me and i love him, but i know that feelings fade and people change .i dont want to get so emotionally attached bc i have seen other girls get really wrapped up in a relationship and then gt their feelings crushed. but on the other hand, this is my first real love and i guess i just just enjoy while it lasts....what should i do?
2006-06-15 07:18:47 · 13 answers · asked by AVDNLHS2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Continue to be as wise and well centered as you clearly are. Celebrate that and just get on with it. First loves does actually work out you know. I am 40 and single so not for me...........but I have 2 close friends who met their husband/wife when they were 14yrs.............so who knows. love is a mystery and all the better for it!
2006-06-15 07:26:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey enjoy your first love as much as possible its very true what you say, it probably won't last forever but then again many first loves do! But remeber life has way to many risks and you can't live your life runnign away from the real feelings b/c your scared they will hurt you!!! Don't fear, enjoy and express your love as best you can...
b/c it only takes a min. to like someone a hour to fall in love and a day to love someone but a lifetime to forget that someone
2006-06-15 07:23:46 · answer #2 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sould really enjoy it while it lasts. i've thought the same thing. i've gotten hurt so much in the past i used to be afraid to go out with a guy. i got over it after a while but its still there. the fear of getting hurt is ALWAYS go to be there and u r going to get hurt but u cant let it control u. spend as much time with him as u can. make it last as long as u can. who knows it might last forever,but it depends on the two of u weither it does or not.
2006-06-15 07:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the most of the love you have for each other now.. if it doesnt work out later on then too bad.. being afraid of getting hurt wont let you have any fun.. just be happy with where your at right now and if your so sure its not gonna last forever at least you experienced what love was and you will grow from it.. trust me
2006-06-15 07:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by team_ank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls that fall apart when their bf breaks up w/ them usually have poor self esteem. As long as you stay your own person and have your own activities, friends, etc. everything will be okay. Girls nowadays think they need a guy to determine who they are. Don't believe that! Stay who you are and your bf will appreciate you even more. Sounds like u guys have a good sense about yourselves. Just be young and have fun, remember your only 16 you are going to kiss alot of frogs before you find your prince! HAVE FUN!!!!!
2006-06-15 07:33:25 · answer #5 · answered by babyruch03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your question...ENJOY it. Don't focus on being hurt,,,when you look for trouble you usually find it. Instead think positively... you can't live thru other folks experiences(however) you can learn something from them. Don't be afraid of being hurt as well, there is indeed something to learn from pain. That is where you learn your strenghts!!!! Live, Learn and most of all LOVE. Focus on the time at hand, let tomorrow be just that...
2006-06-15 07:36:03 · answer #6 · answered by T.B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at your age enjoy it while it last. Take it day by day. If you start feeling like things are just not right then just be her friend. Your young and have plenty of times to go and try new things. But if things are going good then just take it day by day. Good Luck!
2006-06-15 07:24:04 · answer #7 · answered by Piper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young and you are bound to get hurt. That's how life works and that's how you end up finding the one you'll love forever.
2006-06-15 07:30:13 · answer #8 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. sure other girls hav gotten dumped but don't be afraid to love. Don't be afraid to love. Don't be afraid for GOD has not given us the spirit of fear. But of power love and a sound mind.
2006-06-15 07:23:49 · answer #9 · answered by michy0129 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im 18 and hes 22 but im scared to love him but i thik its already to late
2006-06-15 07:24:02 · answer #10 · answered by HOTBABE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋