I need a roommate to help pay for my mortgage, However, my 110 year old house isn't suitable to have a stranger room with.(I am SLOWLY rehabbing it) My ex and I get along pretty well, but dating others is impossible. He broke up with me after I lost alot of wieght and says he doesn't mind if I date. But it would make things very uncomfortable and I don't want to rock the boat since I am the one who needs help to pay the bills. (joint household bills) We were together for almost 6 years and have been broken up for 1 year, seperate bedrooms. Any ideas. I am in my mid thirties and am looking around, but this is a screwed up siutation.
2006-06-15 07:13:27 · 4 answers · asked by skinnykitty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES WHY DONT BOTH OF YOU GO ON DATES AND THE GUY CAN BRING THE GIRL AT UR HOME AND YOU CAN GO TO YOUR DATES HOME
IF THINGS ARE GOING WELL B/W U 2 THEN Y DONT U 2 GET BACK 2 GETHER
2006-06-27 16:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by prlnr 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think living with your ex is a good idea. Because life throws some CRAZY curve balls and we just have to find ways to catch them.
But I mean, he is your ex and you do have to move on. It has been a year. Maybe when you meet someone he can make casual appearances at your place. You know, watch tv, dinner , etc. But for intimate times you should go to his place. I think it would make an uncomfortable situation for all 3 of you.
2006-06-15 07:18:30 · answer #2 · answered by shakia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way for you and your ex is to make such rules like if dont disturb if someone is with somebody. Or put a sign if you have a guest around. That way, no one will suddenly walk into something that they dont want to see.
2006-06-15 07:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you want to rock the boat just go to your date's house.
2006-06-15 07:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by Baconbits 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋