i have a child who is disturbed alot cause seeng his mother and father quarelling every now and then he is now adays reacting violently i dont want to loose controll over him what do you advise me to do please its really affecting him i want him to be a calm boy he is only two and half years old also am thinking of taking him to school by next week if that will help
2006-06-15 07:11:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Don't let him see his parents quarrelling. Kids should have to see that because it's not their problem. Do it when he's in another room or something but don't argue in front of him.
2006-06-15 07:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by BeeFree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get the child out of the situation with the mother and father who are always quarreling. That is not healthy for anyone let alone a two and half year old boy. If you are taking him to school, then talk to the school counselor and find out if there is anything that can be done.
I wish you the best of luck and hope that everything works out.
2006-06-15 14:19:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anne M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First he has to stop seeing the violence. Second, show him love, kindness, and patience. I don't know if taking him to school will help. Then again socializing with other children and seeing how to treat others is a great idea. Good luck!
2006-06-15 14:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what role you play in this child's life, but the parents certainly need to consider having the child see a physician or a counselor...or both...to determine what may be emotional, (anger, anxiety, depression), or what could be physiological.
2006-06-15 14:20:16 · answer #4 · answered by steves_wifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read your Q&A. You need to grow up. You are irresponsible! Figure out what part of your problems are YOUR FAULT and fix that part. You should get a better attitude about women and MAYBE you can satisfy your wife EMOTIONALLY. I think you would see her calm down and respect you more.
2006-06-16 05:25:54 · answer #5 · answered by euhmerist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop fighting in front of him. Take him to therapy or family therapy. Cause he could grow up to be violent
2006-06-22 09:52:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
children learn what they see - if you want him to react calmly and control himself, then that is what he needs to see from his parents. If people speak to him calmly and are not violent in from of him, then he will have a better role model to learn his behavior from.
2006-06-15 14:21:01 · answer #7 · answered by pammy_6201 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when it is time for quarreling, take the child out of the scene in advance .
2006-06-15 14:15:53 · answer #8 · answered by Jerome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your honey bun that every one has problems even mommies and daddies!and that its hard for problems to go away!(with tears)
2006-06-15 14:37:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop fighting in front of your child!! It's abusive!!
2006-06-15 14:14:36 · answer #10 · answered by badoll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋