There's this girl I know. I've caught her checking me out quite a few times, and she just seem to give off this vibe like she's into me. I've been wanting to ask her out but I don't really see her that much so it's been hard to find the right time. Anyway, I saw her with some guy today when she came in to pick up her check. This has me worried. She doesn't seem like the kind of person that would lead someone on. Should I still ask her out?
2006-06-15 07:05:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I should add that I have talked to her a few times. I just didn't ask her out because there were other people present. And I'm not only interested now because she's been giving me signals. I was attracted to her the first time I saw her. I just didn't do anything about it because I rarely even saw her.
2006-06-15 07:24:18 · update #1
go for it.
2006-06-15 07:08:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should. It is the best way to find out if she likes you or not. How do you know the guy she was with was a boyfriend or lover? Most of my friends are guys and you can see me hanging out with them but that doesn't mean I have a thing with them. Ask her out and see what she says. If she turns you down at least you won't be rattling your brain trying to figure out if she likes you. Good luck hun
2006-06-15 14:12:59 · answer #2 · answered by Tina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course you should. You don't know who the guy was so you never know. At best she will say yes, at the worst she'll say she was seeing someone. So what, you haven't lost anything by doing it and you might gain something if you do.
Go for it, just don't wait too long or the opportunity will pass you by.
2006-06-15 14:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by anku7448 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you like her or only because you got signals? If you really like her, than just ask her for coffee as any other friend would do, that would give you an opportunity not to be confused about signs and ask her about 'are you involved'.
Otherwise, if you dont like her, rather than assume about wrong signs, get a life and meet other people.
2006-06-15 14:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by Desert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noway you need to develop a friendship you can't just ask her out out of the blue she will definitely say No way you creep so that's why you have to go up to her and become her friend first. Get to know her.
2006-06-15 14:10:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only ask her out if you feel like it would be something good for you also make sure you like her and want to be with her if not dont it would just turn into a big mistake.
2006-06-15 14:09:36 · answer #6 · answered by lilmama080989 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this girl you should ask one of friends if she likes you, that pretty much tells her that your intrested, if she doesn't give an answer its Yes, becasue if where ugly she would just straight up say NO, so if it seems like she likes you go for it, theres no harm in asking
2006-06-15 14:10:55 · answer #7 · answered by MONEY MIKE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. although she was with anyother guy, it could be a cousin or some type of relative. I have more guy friends than girls, so maybe it is just a good friend. Asking never hurt anyone, so go ahead, it is worth a try.
2006-06-15 14:09:42 · answer #8 · answered by hopper1172002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you should ask her out. The guy might have been a friend or a co-worker or her brother, who knows! But it would do no harm for you to ask her out. The worst that can happen is she might say "no".
2006-06-15 14:12:04 · answer #9 · answered by Samba Queen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a risk. Ask her if she has a boyfriend...if not then ask her out. If she has one; don't be embarrassed...be proud of taking the risk and putting yourself on the line .. and maybe just maybe she is single and you got yerself a new girlfriend.
2006-06-15 14:09:40 · answer #10 · answered by rachel_waves 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No u should wait till some other guy asks her out & then u should curse ur self & kick ur butt for not taking ur chances when u could have.
2006-06-15 14:11:19 · answer #11 · answered by surendra s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋