( im 15 ) i love my gf ok but my whole life ive been shy
i really want to take the next step with her
she does to but im worried that i couldnt take
the risk .... help me plz
2006-06-15 06:58:25 · 28 answers · asked by blondbeast 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what is "the next step" if you mean sex, dont do it. it sounds like she is making you do it. no one should make you do it. its something that happens when you are ready, its not planned. good luck ♥
2006-06-15 07:00:42 · answer #1 · answered by BeAuTiFuL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I answered a similar question, but it was the reverse. I'm thinking you're the same guy, I hope not, my answer is the same. You really want to take the next step with her and she does, but you can't take the risk? Doesn't sound like you're shy, it sounds as if you're a horny teenaged boy and that you want to have sex with your girlfriend and you're not 100% if she wants to. How about you two focus on getting to know each other aside from sex, that way when you're of age it will be something that you've worked toward and you shouldnt have many insecurities or concerns. Good luck.
2006-06-15 14:52:41 · answer #2 · answered by Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm shy to so you should just tell her you know I'm really shy so you have to help me out in taking the next step in this relationship I'm sure it won't be a stupid question and i'm sure it won't turn to an awkward moment and if she does help you your relationship will get stronger but if she does not want to do that then she doesn't really like you the way you thought she did.
2006-06-15 14:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all she is your first love okay. Just remeber that as you grow older there is more tempteition out there for you and her .you will be falling inlove again .Should you take a risk I don't think so plus you guys are to yung to have to stick up with mayor adult responsibilities at this age .If you do go to the next step just remebember to be safe shy everyones shy and its normal through the hole experience of getting older everyone is diffrent.
Just becarefull remeber to that we all learn from our mistakes in life.
2006-06-15 14:08:27 · answer #4 · answered by shasilk67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are pretty young for that and there is plenty of time. Don't rush it. It will happen when the time is right and you are both ready. There is no rule that says you MUST do it before a certain age. Just enjoy being together and kissing and such for now. If you do decide to do it, where protection for goodness sake! You don't want to be a dad at 15!
2006-06-15 14:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by T2Step 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be polite and bring it up somehow in a question! If she doesn't want to it's not the end of the world! Because she may not be ready and then if u don't ask her and just do it u may loss ur girlfriend so ask her and if she's feels the same u can do whatever but if she says not give her time and just be patient and understanding she will love u for that.
2006-06-15 14:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young and especially too young to take the next step (whatever the next step may be). Go play baseball or football or basketball. Secure YOUR future in life while you have a chance, not with women. That too shall come and you've plenty of time ahead of you for that.
2006-06-15 14:02:52 · answer #7 · answered by girlysledgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are willing to take the risk and you know that she's the one talk about it with her, but remember there might be bad or good consequences by your actions. Think about what would happen in the future after your decision.
2006-06-15 14:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you so shy about? I mean you know that she wants to take it to the next step as well, so you have nothing to worry about. Go for it!!
2006-06-15 14:02:15 · answer #9 · answered by boehlingsfam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok if your talking about doing the deed (sex).My suggestion would be dont you'll probally regret it .Anyways if your shy around your girlfriend maybe ya'll should spend more time around each other untill your completly comfortable around her if your not comforable dont do it untill you are.You shouldnt be shy around her.If yuor shy about what she'll think about your body dont be its YOUR body who cares what others think you cant change it unless you have tons of cash so except it.Try somehting simple first like making out ( kissing touching)but dont kiss her once then grab her boob. That will kill it dude. so just dive in try not being shy after awhile you'll be so use to not being shy you'll look back and laugh at it.thats how i got over my shyness.good luck dude.
2006-06-15 14:23:50 · answer #10 · answered by Julia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the next step is s** don't do it unless you're married. Kissing, holding hands, and things like that is ok but nothing else.
2006-06-15 14:07:31 · answer #11 · answered by Sarah C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋