My ex left a few months ago, I've moved on already, but the thing is... I've had two dreams recently, and he was in both. What is going on!?
2006-06-15 06:28:55 · 27 answers · asked by Shy n' Sweet 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dunno. I had a dream my ex commited suicide, when I went to look him up I found out he killed himself a year ago.
It could be a sign. It could just mean you miss him. I say that you need to ignore it and move on...so that you don't get sucked back into the relationship again or get your feelings hurt.
He wasn't a good match for you if you all broke up. I say never date the same man twice, ya know?
Good Luck!
2006-06-15 06:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your dreams don't mean anything. I still dream about people I knew ten years ago. It's your reaction however to these dreams which is telling. Maybe you feel regret or other feelings that you haven't brought up because it hurt. Talk about it with a good friend, it help to sort things out. And remember, nothing is black or white, what matter is the balance, when too much bad in a relationship, time to quit, but it doesn't mean the souvenir of the good parts won't hurt.
2006-06-15 13:35:35 · answer #2 · answered by loki_the_ferret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason is that you still love him even if he left you still have fellings for your ex thats why he's in your dreams hes your dream guy and will be until you forget or find your new dream guy but no one no matter how hard you try you cant top him sorry :(
2006-06-15 13:39:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To see a lover in your dream, symbolizes acceptance, self-worth, and acknowledgement of your true inner value.
To dream of an old or former lover, signifies unfinished/unresolved issues related to that specific relationship. Your current relationship may be awakening some of those same issues.
( http://www.dreammoods.com/)
Ex-boyfriend :Masculine ideal, either integrated or rejected. Something accepted or failed to accept within yourself.
( http://www.petrix.com/dreams/)
Ex-boy/girlfriend :It is very common for people to dream about ex-partners. Individuals that have been an important part of our lives continue to take up a part of our mind and heart. It is impossible to very dramatically shut the person out of thoughts and feelings. Just because the relationship ends does not mean that all is finished. As we go through relationships we learn and at times pick up "battle wounds." You will continue to dream about your ex-girlfriend or boyfriend until you "let go" of them on a very important level, or until you learned your lessons from that relationship. Either way, dreaming about your ex-romance does not predict future involvement. It may be wish-fulfillment, reliving memories, or working out old issues. Dreams are very rarely prophetic.
( http://www.dreamloverinc.com/dictionary1.htm)
Ex-lover/boyfriend: You have certainly carried feeling with you from the relationship, and your dreams about your ex will try to work out some way of feeling at ease within yourself about the break. This is especially so if difficult or painful emotions were involved. Unless these emotions are freed from your past, they are not available for the present.
( http://www.dreamhawk.com/dyd-b.htm#b)
2006-06-15 13:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by super_sexy_amazona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are asleep your mind processes loads of stuff, moving it around and filing it away in different boxes. Your head is just sorting it for you. Don't worry and go with the flow. he may well pop into your dreams for a long time....at least it is your head not your knickers!
2006-06-15 13:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by Ade Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say that our subconscious tries to "fix" things in our dreams. That might be what's happening to you. Most of us experience that after coming through a traumatic event - and breaking up is traumatic for most of us. I think your dreams will pass in time.
2006-06-15 13:37:10 · answer #6 · answered by cynthiajean222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your brain is doing weird things while you are sleeping...dreams sometimes just drag up old memories or happen when you fall asleep thinking about a certain thing...you often dream about what's been on your mind a lot lately...just ignore it and move on
2006-06-15 13:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by celticivory 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having dreams about someone is perfectly normal...I still dream about guys that have been out of my life for years...its just a way your brain processes things...it doesnt mean much...maybe you just were thinking about them...maybe they were thinking about you...maybe they will call you or you will run into them...its just a way to cope I think...
2006-06-15 13:32:29 · answer #8 · answered by j_nelle_03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is still not out of your mind completely, start a new relationship with someone else, that might help you stop thinking(in your case, dreaming) about your ex
2006-06-15 13:33:19 · answer #9 · answered by tuffsheep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to dream about him, that's perfectly normal, specially if he was your boyfriend for a while...You said it yourself you've moved on...I still have dreams about old boyfriends and believe me it means nothing to me...But if you still have feelings for him then that may be why..
2006-06-15 13:34:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋