2006-06-15 06:27:31 · 20 answers · asked by chictvproducer 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Have sex! The more your man has sex with you, the more you will believe he finds you sexy. Believe me, he won't turn you down.
2006-06-15 06:31:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look in the mirror and repeat, "I am a sexy mama!" (after all you did just have a child) Keep repeating until you feel it.
Or, hang around with positive people. Buy yourself some clothes that make you feel sexy.
Go where there are a lot of men and see if any of them try to hit on you....
What smells make you feel sexy, have them around.
Have your true friends around you at this time, sounds like a bit of post partum depression trying to sneak in.
Have your mom take the baby for a day and go to a spa or do a 'do over'.
Hope these suggestions help!
2006-06-15 13:38:52 · answer #2 · answered by debinva2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not easy. It's not just the weight. You probably have no time for any grooming, nails, hair, etc... You might also have post-partum depression. Try some natural mood-boosting tricks first. Get some time for yourself each day. Steal it! Fix yourself up even if you're not going anywhere. Get together with friends when you can. If you still feel low after a couple of weeks, see a doctor.
2006-06-15 13:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by browneyedgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a doctor to help you out. Women go through a post martem depression and you need a professional who can help you. Some times its vitamins and different exrecise regimen and other times prescription for a little while.
Please remember your body went through a hell of a change physcially and mentally you are now a mom for a beautiful child.
All the very best !
2006-06-15 13:32:13 · answer #4 · answered by tortugamerlin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to start telling yourself very directly that you are. You have to have the will power to tell yourself constantly that you are a very beautiful and sexy woman, as I am sure everyone around you believes, and you will eventually believe it yourself. It is just reenforcment for you. You have to think in your mind and in your heart that you truly are beautiful and sexy. Once you make yourself see that, you will feel just as sexy as ever, if not more so.
2006-06-15 13:33:19 · answer #5 · answered by The Shadow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you weigh or even look like, has nothing to do with being sexy. Sexy is an adjective, and an opinion, and every woman is beautiful. Being sexy is in the personality also, screw looks. =D
2006-06-15 13:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by bluesundayjunkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling sexy is a state of mind. you might have some post-partum depression, or lack self-confidence. Discuss with a professional.
2006-06-19 15:40:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to be thin to be sexy. It sounds like you're having problems accepting yourself as you are. Maybe you should seek help from a psychologist, or a psychiatrist.
2006-06-15 14:33:49 · answer #8 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the man who isn't telling you enough how even more wonderful and beautiful u are now that you are a sexy momma.
2006-06-15 13:32:06 · answer #9 · answered by gnomes31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new sexy hairdo, have your nails done, etc... Just get yourself pampered a bit and you'll feel all better.
2006-06-15 13:32:16 · answer #10 · answered by ilovemyarmyguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋